2004 年 1 月 31 日 星期六 【晴】

唔開心呀！
有好多留言唔見左呀！
>_< 唔制呀~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

>>February 1, 2004 at 11:57:39 AM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 31 日 星期六 【晴】

喜歡睡覺
討厭貪睡

!!!! >_< 今日原想早dd起身做野，then再返教會，點知貪睡...10點幾11點先起身..又趕唔切！
真係好內疚..好對唔住呀！唉~~~~

之後下午返教會幫手整攤位佈置，希望一必順利吧！

早d返屋企...想快d攪掂份諮詢minutes俾下莊，今日會KO左佢！(希望啦...)

琴晚好友同我講跟女友和好了....^^ 恭喜晒呀！^^
之後佢問我同"哥哥"點.....哈哈！傻瓜~~~~~
"哥哥"就係"哥哥"，^^ 好似親哥哥咁lor........乜我之前寫d野好曖昧咩？
^^ 證明我地感情幾好！哈哈~~~ 咁難得有個好哥哥，唔想一手摧毀我地既關係~
哥哥真係好好架！對妹妹好好好~~~~~ ^^

同朋友講左個秘密.....係我既anxiety之一...........
唔知佢明唔明，不過真係幾擔心..........................
^^ thanks你讚我bor.....哈！

大Car姐姐呀！我都一定會支持你啦！你唔好唔要我就得喇！^^
Love you forever~~~~

2月14日有無單身一族無街街去呢？
^^ 我就有約會喇！呵呵~~~~~~~
我同一班弟兄姊妹齊齊食大餐呀！^^
有無興趣join我地呢？^^

>>February 1, 2004 at 10:23:30 AM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 31 日 星期六 【晴】

A Meaningful Message
Too Busy for a Friend...

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name.

Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.

It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.

That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper,and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't know others liked me so much." were most of the comments.

No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.

Several years later, one of the students was killed in Viet Nam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.

The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin. As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. "Were you Mark's math teacher?" he asked. She nodded: "yes."
Then he said: "Mark talked about you a lot."

After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher.

"We want to show you something," his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket. "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it."

Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him.

"Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said.
"As you can see, Mark treasured it."

All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said,
"I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home." Chuck's wife said, "Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album." "I have mine too," Marilyn said. "It's in my diary." Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. "I carry this with me at all times," Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: "I think we all saved our lists."

That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again.

The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day.
And we don't know when that one day will be.

So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important.
Tell them, before it is too late.

>>February 1, 2004 at 10:04:39 AM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 31 日 星期六 【晴】

唔乖既學生！唔乖既女女！
唔好既妹妹！唔好既朋友！

今日乜都做齊啦....
有好多功課，結果做得少少....成日去左睇電視
之後...去左買手機.....買左部好貴既新手機......差不多成二千塊...好貴！(媽咪俾錢)
約左朋友去睇戲，又甩底...............實在有好多功課要做....sorry.........
傻傻搵我...我話遲d覆佢...無覆到！實俾佢鬧死！算啦~

唉！今日真係不知所謂!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

手多多咁send左個sms俾傻傻...自己攞黎衰！
佢實鬧死我...................................
不過我決定左啦...如果佢真係鬧我既話...我就嬲死佢！
點可以成日俾佢食住個勢架？我都係人，我都有情緒架!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

^^ 部新電話好靚.....好鍾意~
不過真係好貴.............. >_< !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>January 31, 2004 at 4:54:34 PM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 30 日 星期五 【晴】

第一名
畢業典禮上， 校長宣布全年級第一名的同學上台領獎，
可是連續叫了好幾聲之後，那
位學生才慢慢的走上台。
後來， 老師問那位學生說：「怎麼了﹖是不是生病了﹖還是剛才沒聽清楚﹖」
學生答：「不是的，我是怕其他同學沒聽清楚。」

名與利是多少人的捆綁、多少人的心結？ 我們被教育要爭氣、要出頭，但是爭氣出頭的，不過是少數人， 沉默的大眾畢竟還是多數。 想一想， 那麼多人都和你我一樣，不也是很興奮的一件事嗎？


原來如此
甲：「新搬來的鄰居好可惡，昨天晚上三更半夜、夜深人靜之時，竟然跑來猛按我家的門鈴。」
乙：「的確可惡！你有沒有馬上報警？」
甲：「沒有。我當他們是瘋子，繼續吹我的小喇叭。」

事出必有因， 如果能先看到自己的不是，答案就會不一樣了。在你面對衝突和爭執時，先想一想是否心中有虧， 或許很快就能釋懷了。


誤會
某日， 張三在山間小路開車， 正當他悠哉地欣賞美麗風景時，突然迎面開來一輛貨車，而且滿口黑牙的司機還搖下窗戶對他大罵一聲「豬」。張三越想越納悶， 也越想越氣， 於是他也搖下車窗回頭大罵：「你才是豬！」才剛罵完， 他便迎頭撞上一群過馬路的豬。

不要錯誤的詮釋別人的好意，那只會讓自己吃虧，並且使別人受辱。在不明所以之前， 先學會按捺情緒， 耐心觀察， 以免事後生發悔意。


後生可畏
小男孩問爸爸：「是不是做父親的總比做兒子的知道得多？」
爸爸回答：「當然啦！」
小男孩問：「電燈是誰發明的？」
爸爸：「是愛迪生。」
小男孩又問：「那愛迪生的爸爸有沒有發明電燈？」

很奇怪， 喜歡倚老賣老的人，特別容易栽跟斗。權威往往只是一個經不起考驗的空殼子，尤其在現今這個多元開放的時代。


不必緊張
小明洗澡時不小心吞下一小塊肥皂，他的媽媽慌慌張張地打電話向家庭醫生求助。
醫生說：「我現在還有幾個病人在，可要半小時後才能趕過去。」
小明媽媽說：「在你來之前，我該做甚麼？」
醫生說：「給小明喝一杯白開水，然後用力跳一跳，你就可以讓小明用嘴巴吹泡泡消磨時間了。」

Take it easy! 放輕鬆些，生活何必太緊張？事情既然已經發生了，何不坦然自在的面對。 擔心不如寬心， 窮緊張不如窮開心。


鑰匙
一把堅實的大鎖掛在大門上， 一根鐵桿費了九牛二虎之力，還是無法將它撬開。鑰匙來了， 他瘦小的身子鑽進鎖孔， 只輕輕一轉，那大鎖就「啪」地一聲打開了。鐵桿奇怪地問：「為什麼我費了那麼大力氣也打不開，而你卻輕而易舉地就把它打開了呢？」
鑰匙說：「因為我最了解他的心。」

每個人的心， 都像上了鎖的大門，任你再粗的鐵棒也撬不開。唯有關懷，才能把自己變成一隻細膩的鑰匙， 進入別人的心中， 了解別人。


唯有穿鞋的人，才知道鞋的哪一處擠腳（赫伯特）
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何謂天才？天才就是放對地方的人才；
反過來說，你眼中的蠢材，很可能也只是放錯地方的人才。
例如：
你和一位土著被困在非洲叢林，既無食物，也無水喝，那麼你將把這位土著當作「天才」，
因為他懂得各種求生的技巧。
相反地，如果把他帶到辦公室要他使用電腦，那麼情況將會完全不同，你可能會認為他是「白痴」。
的確，天生我材必有用。

有些科學家連音階都抓不準；
有些畫家連一封信都寫不好，
可是他們「把自己放對地方」，所以成就非凡。

史蒂芬.史匹寶就是個例子，他因為高中的成績非常差，沒有任何電影科系願意准許他入學。相反的，他走進電影工作室，認真學到了他所需的技能。今天，他不但製作了許多評價極高的影片，更成為家喻戶曉的大導演。

畢卡索剛出道時原本想當詩人，結果他的詩被極具鑑識能力的絲泰茵夫人評得一文不值，他因而回心轉意。幸好有這位貴婦的提醒，否則這世界不就少了一位大畫家了嗎？

其實，所有的人事物原本都是美好的，只是所屬的地方適不適合而已。如美味的湯汁滴到襯衫上即變「骯髒」，床第間的私密用語到了街上即成「髒話」。是不是很有趣！

原本含在口中的食物，只要吐出來就變得「嘔心」，把它吞下去反而「有營養」。即使是骯髒污穢的垃圾，只要放對地方（埋在土裡），也能滋養大地，開出美麗的花朵，長出能夠帶給我們健康的食物。

這世上沒有任何一個人或一件東西，是沒用或卑賤的，任何人或物，只要放對了地方，都會成為有用的「可造之材」。

希望你也能找到最適合自己的人生舞台，並且盡情歡唱生命之歌。

生命的最高境界，即是選對舞台，走出自己的路，然後盡情地發揮獨特的才華與能力。

>>January 31, 2004 at 9:06:08 AM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 30 日 星期五 【晴】

本來想打好份諮詢minutes俾下莊用...
結果出師不利....而家訓唔著，又做唔到野......

今晚發生左一件小事....整個過程only十秒都無，但係.......
諗番起都好想喊.....................
好在有哥哥陪我......佢真係好好...........好過傻傻...........................
好想對哥哥好dddddd，好過傻傻啦.....
但係.....傻傻一定唔制.........雖然佢已經有左XXX......................
傻傻與我，只係單向既利用關係
哥哥與我，卻係雙向既關懷關係

好口渴....但係又無得飲水.....................................

仲係好驚....今晚會發惡夢.....................................................................

>>January 30, 2004 at 6:48:57 PM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 30 日 星期五 【晴】

今晚哭了....
忍不住.......................
不是第一次因"你"而哭了.......................

thanks 哥哥.........
唔明點解自己會對傻傻好過對你....
你對我好咁多，又錫我、保護我.................
多謝你呀！哥哥.........

哥哥佢真係好....我feel到好暖呀.............謝謝你~

>>January 30, 2004 at 6:27:31 PM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 30 日 星期五 【晴】

討厭你
討厭自己

連婆婆都叫我.............
佢話..如果我.........既話會好開心................................
攪到我......越來越想.........越諗越多...................
因為一直都以為婆婆對呢d野無意見....
點知.........原來唔係.......................
之後仲要你安慰我.......你知我乜都就晒你架啦...
你叫我做咩就做咩.....乜都係架..............就算係.....你都會係第一關...你唔喜歡我都唔會要架！
俾婆婆你一句說話攪到我LawLawLuen添！

你要等我....還記得我們的承諾嗎？

不要許下一輩子的諾言，假如你沒有信心兌現的話....................
後悔....

>>January 30, 2004 at 6:03:42 PM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 29 日 星期四 【晴】

呢兩日頭痛、腰痛、食慾大增&成日好攰咁....
訓極都唔夠、食極都唔夠！
討厭的mens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>January 30, 2004 at 8:00:02 AM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 28 日 星期三 【晴】

今天是很開心的一天！
上堂見到一班同學仔+睇外星BB+買禮物+組聚~

今日唔知醒....^^ 上堂遲到了~ 不過我上12:30堂lor...哈哈！
上左兩堂不知所謂的tuto，then去上clinical..........
clinical...學既野唔多...聽左一個故事咁大把..........
>_< 睇左readings既有得加分？好核突呀！
then...^^ 去搵哥哥一齊睇電視~

好好好好好超級開心呀！
知道琴日哥哥無晒雜糧，便替他入貨....^^ 點知意外知道他也喜歡看外星BB的....
好野！約左一齊睇..原本我無得睇架！而家有得睇...十萬個開心！
原來今日BB大結局.....唔捨得呀！不過個結局好好睇.......好感動~
^^ 睇得好開心呀！估唔到係學校都可以睇到BB.....正！二十萬個開心！
做完BB....有d不快.......點知................
^^ 點知做完BB就做多啦A夢wor......哈哈！好野~~~~~~~~~~五十萬個開心呀！
唉~ 心情好矛盾添！唔想BB咁快做完..但係多啦A夢又好吸引bor...............
anyway...真係超級高興！
行去三、四苑搭校巴，有哥哥陪，好野！^^
同佢傾左ddddBB既事....佢真係我既知音人呀!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!正！
之後同阿媽&老公講，佢都話我地XX......>_< 真係唔識貨~
哥哥好野~~~~~~~~~~~~
(:P 叫錯左哥哥做大佬添！sorry呀！哈哈~~~)

組聚前同老公去買禮物俾kitty女女，當然買kitty野啦~~
then再買埋攤位既公仔...真係好喇！五十塊錢五個~ YEAH!!個老闆娘好好人~
^^ 老公好傻瓜~ 而家男女平等啦...一定要男仔幫女仔拎野咩？見佢唔係好重就俾你幫下啦~~!! ^^
thanks你呀！同你行街買野傾計真係好開心！^^ 你要小心考慮&加油呢~~~
八十萬個開心！

見到Ivan仔仔....怪怪地咁.......你無事嘛？擔心.................
覺得你有好多心事...好想有人陪住你咁..........對嗎？
還是這是我當社工的職業病？疑心重...無事找事做.......................
擔心你的LTS？傻仔呀！俾心機啦~~~~~~
^^ 快D搵番個家嫂俾我！

你真的無事嗎？你....給我的感覺好似「娃先生」........
他也像你這樣的.....我要小心點才行！

組聚....好有family feel........雖然你們叫我「阿媽」時旁人目光奇怪，
但我喜歡！^^ 我愛上了當你們的媽媽~
下次組聚....煮飯仔吧~
今天真是一百萬個開心！^^

P.S. 無聊時傻傻send左個sms俾我......一萬個開心啦~

>>January 29, 2004 at 4:23:44 PM GMT+8