2004 年 1 月 9 日 星期五 【晴】

搬了hall啦，各位16樓既姊妹，我會成日返黎探你地架!!!!!!!!!!!!
miss and love all of you ar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!好唔捨得你地呀。

買左蠔仔粥，...店舖重新裝修了，人也變了，連粥也沒有以前咁好味...
感覺係...戚戚然law...


<只有你能欣賞我>
第一次參加家長會，幼兒園的老師說：“你的兒子有多動症，在板凳上連
三分鐘都座不了，你最好帶他去醫院看一看。”
回家的路上，兒子問她老師都說了些什麼，她鼻子一酸，差點流下淚來。
因為全班30位小朋友，惟有他表現最差；惟有對他，老師表現出不屑。然
而她還是告訴她的兒子：“ 老師表揚你了，說寶寶原來在板凳上坐不了一
分鐘，現在能坐三分鐘了。其他的媽媽都非常羨慕媽媽，因為全班只有寶
寶進步了。”

那天晚上，她兒子破天荒吃了兩碗米飯，並且沒讓她餵。兒子上小學了。
家長會上，老師說：“全班50名同學，這次數學考試，你兒子排第40名我
們懷疑他智力上有些障礙，您最好能帶他去醫院查一查。”

回去的路上，她流下了淚。然而，當她回到家裡，卻對坐在桌前的兒子
說：“老師對你充滿信心。他說了，你並不是個笨孩子，只要能細心些，
會超過你的同桌，這次你的同桌排在21名。”
說這話時，她發現，兒子黯淡的眼神一下子充滿了光，沮喪的臉也一下子
舒展開來。她甚至發現，兒子溫順得讓她吃驚，好像長大了許多。第二天
上學時，去得比平時都要早。

孩子上了初中，又一次家長會。她坐在兒子的座位上，等著老師點她兒子
的名字，因為 每次家長會，她兒子的名字在差生的行列中總是被點到。
然而，這次卻出乎她的預料，直到結束，都沒聽到。她有些不習慣。臨
別，去問老師，老師告訴她：“按你兒子現在的成績，考重點高中有點危
險。”

她懷著驚喜的心情走出校門，此時她發現兒子在等她。她扶著兒子的
肩，心裡有一種說不出的甜蜜，她告訴兒子：“班主任對你非常滿意，他
說了，只要你努力，很有希望考上重點高中。”

高中畢業了。第一批大學錄取通知書下達時，學校打電話讓她兒子到學校
去一趟。她有一種預感，她兒子被清華錄取了，因為在報考時，她給兒子
說過，她相信他能考取這所學校。

他兒子從學校回來，把一封印有清華大學招生辦公室的特快專遞交到她的
手，突然轉身跑到自己的房間裡大哭起來。
邊哭邊說：“媽媽，我知道我不是個聰明的孩子，可是，這個世界上只有
你能欣賞我……”這時，她悲喜交加，再也按捺不住十幾年來凝聚在心中
的淚水，任它打在手中的信封上。


一句鼓勵的話 可改變一個人的觀念與行為 甚至改變一個人的命運
一句負面的話 可刺傷一個人的心靈與身體 甚至毀滅一個人的未來

--> 所以我好憎d人講d負面既說話同埋講野唔埋人感受。

>>January 10, 2004 at 10:12:42 AM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 8 日 星期四 【晴】

http://community.webshots.com/photo/109360518/109363285Hwegfb

今日收到細peg呢個website，笑到爆廠。
完全無其他野好講，哈哈哈。

原來huge grand 係oxford eng lit畢業，真係勁!

>>January 8, 2004 at 10:44:48 PM GMT+8

2004 年 1 月 2 日 星期五 【晴】

今日終於放假了，心情放鬆了很多，昨夜已經回到hall，好舒服，好relax。
睇左叱吒，好感動，尤其係古巨基個part，感動到我都想喊咁滯。差唔多成3:00先sleep，可能因為知道今日唔洗返工，所以心情特別興奮。

成日係學校做左好多野，買書、借書、影印、交錢、報普通話，好充實。
撞到vera，知道大家係placement到做既野都差唔多，我個心都定d。
之後同ada, 金毛同joe食tea，感覺好舒服，因為我地都差不多成個月冇見，雖然大家一起食tea，但好似大家都好忙咁，金毛又好似放唔低佢份project，同埋四處同人social，joe又被人煩住不停傾電話，ada同我又遲到，btw--i still enjoy this tea such as the atmosphere and the food~~~~~We chatted some and got some fun! 我既牛奶妹係咪好得意呢?

joe令我終於明白到--當你同朋友一起既時候，有人打電話黎唔收線真係好煩。

ada: thanks for your gift~
金毛:努力做project!!!!!
joe:唔好咁煩啦~繼續享受你既"撻皮"生活啦，i am so jeaous!

>>January 3, 2004 at 10:18:33 PM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 31 日 星期三 【晴】

返左工已經3日啦，好好好好累，(無論係精神上或者係體力上)。
學唔學到野，hm...我諗宜家都唔可以咁快下決定，但我既supervisor係一個好presentable既人，呢一點係毫無疑問既。我諗佢係真係一個好勁既人黎既，at least佢係一個 leader who wants to make changes! 我讀既書，係可以真正apply係佢身上既。

今日係03年既last day，好想revise一下自己做過d乜，今朝睇左都市清心寫既文章，幾有feel。
我諗人越來越大，時間真係會越來越快咁過去，細個既時候，常常想時間快d過，因為可以快d大，但宜家--我好好好想時間會走得慢一點，因為我真係好想實實在在咁去enjoy my youth life!
歲月真是不留人，前幾天，同屋企人傾計既時候，講開我既中學，原來我發現我已經離開了五年啦，係五年呀!!!但其實我既心智真係仍然留係個個階段，可以我真係抗拒長大。

今年最開心，我諗係我真正enjoy 我既hall-life，我既swimming team，我既u-life，同埋我既religion。我好想同大家講--I love all of you! 我會永遠懷念03年!!!!!!!

ada, rennie: miss you all ar!
金毛& 阿9: 100 x sorry for tonight~
各位好友: happy new year!

特別鳴謝你既忍耐。

>>December 31, 2003 at 7:32:41 PM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 27 日 星期六 【晴】

水有多重？

一位講師於壓力管理的課堂上拿起一杯水，
然後問聽眾說：「各位認為這杯水有多重？」
聽眾有的說20公克，有的說500公克不等。
講師則說：「這杯水的重量並不重要，重要的是你能拿多久？
拿一分鐘，各位一定覺得沒問題；
拿一個小時，可能覺得手酸；
拿一天，可能得叫救護車了。
其實這杯水的重量是一樣的， 但是你若拿越久，就覺得越沉重。
這就像我們承擔著壓力一樣， 如果我們一直把壓力放在身上， 不管時間長短， 到最後我們就覺得壓力越來越沉重而無法承擔。
我們必須做的是，放下這杯水休息一下後再拿起這杯水， 如此才能夠拿的更久。
所以，各位應該將承擔的壓力於一段時間後適時的放下並好好的休息一下，然後再 重新拿起來，如此才可承擔久遠。」
這就像我們於職場上一樣， 我們應該將工作上的壓力於下班時放下而別帶回家了， 回家後是應該好好的休息， 明天再重新拿起這壓力， 如此我們就不會覺得壓力的沉重了。

>>December 27, 2003 at 10:33:17 AM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 26 日 星期五 【晴】

終於考完試+完晒所有essay! 好耐都未試過咁放鬆，不過最後呢幾個禮拜真係好難捱，差唔多晚晚都冇得訓，勁harsh。從未試過完全唔訓去做essay，呢個sem試左幾百次，crazy。

交左fred既最後一份essay，係48小時冇訓既情況底下，去左睇lord of the rings，好多人都估我會sleep during watching，sorry~要令各位失望啦...小妹冇訓wor~ha ha~~~~orlandor bloom~~~勁勁勁靚仔，上集上馬後，今集又有上象位，yeah yeah~~~~~~

平安夜--看左聖誕樹，very pretty~~~我最終冇出去夜遊，實在太迫啦，我最憎同人迫。
聖誕節是一個紀念耶穌基督降生既日子--真係好有意義。未信主既朋友，不如思考一下點解我地要celebrate x'mas?

last night打邊爐--super full~~~
今日睇左2齣vcd~ 撻皮既生活--又返黎啦~~yeah yeah~~~~~~

鍾意李天命的思考藝術嗎?

ada: enjoy ur trip!!!!!! thx for ur card~
金毛，joe，rennie: 努力exam呀!搏盡呀!!!!!!!
sum chai, oo, mwy, bean: enjoy ur trips, too~~~~~~~~~

今年xmas收到好好好好好多sms~
thanks for everyone~~~~~~~
wish all of you have a nice xmas & happy new year~~~~~~

>>December 27, 2003 at 12:04:51 AM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 25 日 星期四 【晴】

有個港大哲學系的碩士，因為畢業後找不到工作，又不想待在家當米蟲，只好到動物園去應徵管理員。

雖然已經念到碩士了，但是識時務為俊傑，他也只好硬著頭皮乖乖的安分工作。

某一天，動物園的猴子因為集體腹瀉，全被送到醫院去了，動物園的園長就吩咐這個碩士：「今天動物園沒有猴子像什麼話？這兒有件猴子的假皮毛服，就委屈一下囉！如果你不
肯，只好請你走了。」

這個碩士雖然覺得很不甘心，為了一份薪水，他也只好聽話裝猴子陪小朋友開心。

就在他盡心於他的工作時，他忽然看見有一隻獅子向他走來，他嚇得直發抖，當獅子越來
越靠近他，他簡直就快屁滾尿流，

當那隻獅子就在他旁邊時， 獅子忽然對他說： 「嘿，同學不要怕，我是中大應數系畢業的。」

只聽到後面樹叢中傳出一個聲音： 樹A說：「我們是理工企管系的。」 樹B說：「嗚嗚嗚，私立學校的只可以演植物...你們現在站的草皮就是樹仁文學的。」

地上有一堆大象留下的糞便，他說他是城大副副學士......

>>December 27, 2003 at 9:34:45 AM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 24 日 星期三 【晴】

A young man was getting ready to graduate from college.
For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.
As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car.
Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study.

His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible, with the young man's name embossed in gold.

Angrily, he raised his voice to his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the leaving the Bible.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business.

He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him.
He had not seen him since that graduation day.
Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son.
He needed to come home immediately and take care of things.

When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.
He began to search through his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago.

With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. His father had carefully underlined a verse, Matt 7:11:

"And if ye, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Heavenly father which is in heaven, give to those who ask Him?"

As he read those words, a car key dropped from the back of the Bible.
It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired.
On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...

PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

>>December 27, 2003 at 10:36:28 AM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 23 日 星期二 【颳風】

One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live.
They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?
"It was great, Dad."
"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.
"Oh yeah," said the son.
"So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father.

The son answered: "I saw that we have one dog and they had four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.
We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night.
Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.
We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.
We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.
We buy our food, but they grow theirs.
We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy's father was speechless.
Then his son added, "Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are."

Too many times, we forget what we have and concentrate on what we don't have. What is one's person's worthless object is another's prize possession.
It is all based on one's perspective.
Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for all the bounty we have instead of worrying about wanting more.
Take joy and appreciate every single thing you have, especially your friends!

"Life is too short and friends are few"

>>December 27, 2003 at 10:35:23 AM GMT+8

2003 年 12 月 18 日 星期四 【晴】

http://wylai.mine.nu/passage/de-sa/de-sa.html

What are you seeking? &
What am I seeking?

缺失的那一部分，雖不可愛，卻也是你生命的一部分，接受它且善待它，你的人生會快樂豁達
許多。


要學會豁達 + 大方...可能要學成世。
damn cold~

>>December 19, 2003 at 10:23:33 AM GMT+8