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今天當了 interpreter
這兩位內地人素質很好
過了愉快的一天
>>October 24, 2012 at 3:17:53 PM GMT+8
五叔公和爺爺很像
今天看見你真好
祝健康快樂
:))
>>October 24, 2012 at 3:08:59 PM GMT+8
明明已經差不多打算離開香港
但學民思潮這班孩子感動了我
今天 ad hoc 去南生圍
驚嘆那裡風景的漂亮
這兩件事都讓我捨不得香港
倘若再出現第三件讓我感動的事
我想我還是留下好了
>>October 22, 2012 at 1:39:51 AM GMT+8
跟中大舊同學見面
幫忙作 focus group 的 subject
這麼多年沒見
這晚 catch up 很 enjoyable
thank you guys
>>October 22, 2012 at 1:36:47 AM GMT+8
保密日記，請登入觀看！
>>October 18, 2012 at 1:12:17 PM GMT+8
嘗試入 camp 前在日常生活中 observe 8 precepts
真的異常困難
很多時 break 了後數小時甚至數天才驚覺
這讓我切身體會到 center 的重要
真的要盡力支持這些中心的建立
>>October 18, 2012 at 12:18:42 PM GMT+8
一個人去了政總
做了該做的事
很開心
發現舊同學當上台上的義工
閒談了幾句
大家一齊盡自己的所能作出努力
:))
>>October 18, 2012 at 1:02:34 AM GMT+8
"Happy indeed we live,
friendly amidst the hostile.
Amidst hostile people
we dwell free from hatred.
Dhammapada 15.197"
收到這封 fwd 電郵
挺有意思, 在此分享
"【火葬場操作員受訪記】
2010.10.1: 據殯葬管委會統計，靈骨塔的骨灰罈平均放50年後就沒人理了。
很無情的對話，但卻是事實，看看吧！
人生道理大家都聽得「懂」，卻很少人聽得「進」。
大家都看得「透」，卻很少人看得「開」。
人生茫茫，看開點；
計較到頭來還不是只剩一堆白骨。
還不如開心地過每一天吧!!!
人間異語：燒死人像燒垃圾，感恩自己能還有一口氣在，得把握與親人互動的真實感與快樂!!!
【火葬場操作員受訪記】
Q：怎有勇氣到火葬場工作？
A：為什麼不敢來？死人最不可怕，雖然不會跟你說謝謝，乖乖聽話，不會亂跑，不像活人不知何時會陷害你。
我們殯儀館的冰櫃只要5成滿，就有300個靈魂，你想那種場面多大？
很可惜我沒看過鬼，有時值班一個人睡在火葬場， 以為看到鬼影，但走近看，都只是白布或樹枝。
我平均每天燒48具遺體，這工作像開飛機，只是這機票都是one way，最尷尬的是遇到朋友，因為不是他，就是他親人離世。
遇到辦喪禮的好日子或農曆7月前夕，上天堂的登機口會突然擠進很多旅客，有辦法的家屬會走「公務門」，我們只能照上面安排，
調整焚化爐的溫度和壓力，讓平民小老百姓燒快點，我會不平，覺得死人沒尊卑，為何我不能把某些遺體慢慢弄好？
怕看中秋節烤肉
從焚化爐的觀測窗看，燒半小時後是焦黑帶皮，1小時後就剩扭曲的骨頭；
有些燒不到的部位，比如背後，我還要幫他翻一下。
剛到火葬場的第一個月，一直看曾經活生生的同類燒焦，會很怕看到生肉放在爐上的畫面，還跟老婆說中秋節不要烤肉。
過了半年，我開始覺得這只是燒垃圾，因為台灣習俗很糟糕，陪葬品比遺體還多，燒完後常找半天還看不到遺骨 。
Q：你不覺得這工作很神聖？
A：神聖個鳥蛋！你不要的東西是不是垃圾？
國外很多社區的暖氣都由火葬場提供，希望台灣火葬場也能做汽電共生，回收熱能，至少讓我覺得自己較不像燒垃圾的工人。
Q：印象最深的火化經驗？
A：我國小同學。他涉嫌暴利討債，今年中因被警方追捕而舉槍自殺。
我看電視新聞是同名同姓，心裡千百個希望那不是他，在網路上查遍資料，也到葬儀社打聽，就是沒勇氣直接找家屬確認。
1個多月後，我看到當天火化名單有這個人，跑到靈堂看照片，發現果真是他，很震撼，但唯一能做的就是給他上香，祝他好走，然後慢慢地、好好地為他火化遺體。
都自殺了，情治單位為確定死因還解剖，鋸開頭骨，把腦拿出來，看那 畫面你會感覺人很不值錢。
為他火化那刻，我回憶起跟他互動的情景，很感慨：我們同年齡，他已化為白骨，我還站在這裡，我們從哪裡變成兩條不同的路？
Q：你同學的遺體也是垃圾？
A：還是垃圾。
這很殘忍，卻是我心裡最真實的話。
很多名人都在我手中火化，感覺沒什麼差別，頂多只是看到他們家屬，發現原來這些電視上的人長這樣。
有一口氣在真好，每天站在生命最終的里程碑，讓我覺得有一口氣在真好，還可以回家，一旦生命結束，什麼都沒了。
未來對我太遙遠，去想何時股票會漲、景氣怎樣都沒用，不如有空盡量陪我小孩玩。
Q：換轉是你自己會怎麼做？
A：不要陪葬品、進冰庫，也不用看日子，死後3天內就火化，樹葬、灑葬、海葬都行，就是不要放靈骨塔 。
據殯葬管委會統計，靈骨塔的骨灰罈平均放50年後就沒人理了。
Q：最怕火化到誰？
A：我媽。幸運的是，如果我媽過世，那我一定在靈堂當家屬，不可能還來操作焚化爐。
【後記】
人一生出來就開始倒數計時了，好好的活吧!!
每個人都需要有朋友，
但是，認真思考…
家人更是人一生中最值得用心經營、珍惜把握的!!!
活得要對得起自己!
父母要孝養，身體要保養，飲食要營養；講話要涵養。
子女要教養，生病要調養，感情要培養；做人要修養。"
>>October 15, 2012 at 3:26:00 PM GMT+8
去年十月播下的種子
一年以來都沒聯絡
想不到她一直記在心中
今天收到她的信息
雖然我不知道最後能否成事
但對她一直記住的這份心
已讓我覺得很感動
開心上半天了
謝謝你喔
我真的很感動
也很感恩呢
謝謝
:)))
>>October 14, 2012 at 3:35:07 PM GMT+8
"Some recluses and brahmins, so called,
Are deeply attached to their own views;
People who only see one side of things
Engage in quarrels and disputes.
Udāna 6.54"
Very very good reminder
let me be careful not to attach only to vipassana or dhamma
and remind myself to see things from different angles
>>October 14, 2012 at 3:44:34 PM GMT+8
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http://feeds.pariyatti.org/dwob
我的朋友:
喜歡的連結:
美容:
終於找回你的BLOG 地址。很高
>>July 10, 2011 at 11:26:32 AM GMT+8
happy new year!!
>>February 15, 2010 at 10:40:30 PM GMT+8
support you my f
>>October 19, 2009 at 1:04:26 AM GMT+8
just came across
>>June 4, 2009 at 4:30:51 PM GMT+8
great to know yo
>>May 12, 2009 at 5:53:41 AM GMT+8
hey katie, are u
>>April 1, 2009 at 1:59:37 AM GMT+8
i found the cont
>>March 4, 2009 at 5:34:22 AM GMT+8
happy new year!!
>>January 2, 2009 at 12:45:37 PM GMT+8
great job! yeah!
>>November 11, 2008 at 12:10:04 PM GMT+8
yes yes i like t
>>October 16, 2008 at 3:40:38 AM GMT+8
哎喲 Katie, 看了你的 B
>>October 1, 2008 at 5:29:08 AM GMT+8
Dear Katie, I fu
>>July 31, 2008 at 5:04:40 PM GMT+8
hey, 你所說的男性友人是mr
>>July 14, 2008 at 5:45:39 PM GMT+8
緣份唔係亞q,我好信的,好奇怪有
>>May 22, 2008 at 10:24:35 PM GMT+8
yes 祝你找到一個好的終身伴侶
>>May 16, 2008 at 11:09:14 PM GMT+8
hey, katie! 你轉左工
>>March 18, 2008 at 7:10:35 PM GMT+8
o yes i have wat
>>January 16, 2008 at 9:16:36 PM GMT+8
Long time no see
>>November 16, 2007 at 11:54:22 PM GMT+8
great :) nice to
>>August 29, 2007 at 1:26:52 AM GMT+8
sending all my s
>>July 3, 2007 at 2:39:25 PM GMT+8
Katie I have bee
>>July 3, 2007 at 12:07:43 AM GMT+8
It should be a v
>>June 21, 2007 at 9:58:40 PM GMT+8
It must be a dif
>>June 20, 2007 at 6:35:50 PM GMT+8
i think i'm very
>>June 20, 2007 at 5:40:02 PM GMT+8
Never leave any
>>June 8, 2007 at 3:22:59 AM GMT+8
Dear Miss Sea Cu
>>May 30, 2007 at 11:56:44 PM GMT+8
Know that you ha
>>May 17, 2007 at 5:20:42 PM GMT+8
Have to look aft
>>April 11, 2007 at 5:30:34 PM GMT+8
Take care Katie.
>>April 11, 2007 at 5:39:20 AM GMT+8
I'm sending my g
>>April 10, 2007 at 2:27:31 PM GMT+8
Wish you have a
>>March 31, 2007 at 5:09:47 PM GMT+8
親愛的katie..
<br>祝
>>March 16, 2007 at 1:10:36 PM GMT+8
每次吵架你動不動便說分手
<br
>>March 1, 2007 at 9:43:09 PM GMT+8
Happy Valentine'
>>February 14, 2007 at 11:19:59 AM GMT+8
Happy New Year!!
>>January 11, 2007 at 9:53:27 PM GMT+8
Happy New Year!
>>January 2, 2007 at 3:02:33 PM GMT+8
妳確實有d混血兒feel...
>>December 2, 2006 at 12:18:41 PM GMT+8
Best Fd 2, you a
>>November 9, 2006 at 11:09:44 PM GMT+8
海參小姐：
<br>你沒有來我的
>>November 7, 2006 at 1:04:58 AM GMT+8
Hi Katie,
<br>Wi
>>October 17, 2006 at 1:16:55 AM GMT+8
因為海參肥DODO滑LULU 囉
>>September 21, 2006 at 12:26:27 AM GMT+8
好一陣子冇來你的diary啦..
>>September 17, 2006 at 8:31:18 PM GMT+8
katie,又係我~~我好鍾意你
>>September 16, 2006 at 10:02:43 PM GMT+8
Katie, so happy
>>September 13, 2006 at 8:03:51 AM GMT+8
恭喜呀katie~~~~~~~~
>>September 5, 2006 at 1:24:20 AM GMT+8
hello~~你好啊！
<br>
>>September 4, 2006 at 7:24:07 PM GMT+8
我都鍾意 jump jump j
>>August 29, 2006 at 3:51:39 PM GMT+8
just delete wid
>>August 26, 2006 at 11:21:54 AM GMT+8
Hi! I would like
>>August 16, 2006 at 11:11:32 PM GMT+8
女仔無拖拍實話<講緣>份
<br
>>August 13, 2006 at 6:24:28 PM GMT+8
OOOKATIE..我都係O-架
>>August 7, 2006 at 3:43:55 PM GMT+8
喂katie點解要"保密日記"呀
>>August 6, 2006 at 4:23:32 PM GMT+8
katie, 你又係星期六睇軟硬
>>August 1, 2006 at 2:15:08 AM GMT+8
Katie,
<br>揀你自己覺
>>July 13, 2006 at 6:00:39 PM GMT+8
cher katie,
<br>
>>July 12, 2006 at 11:43:25 PM GMT+8
我黎啦！哈哈！~hihihi
>>July 4, 2006 at 10:31:57 AM GMT+8
對號入座先！
>>July 3, 2006 at 5:52:53 PM GMT+8
We are connected
>>June 29, 2006 at 3:00:41 PM GMT+8
偶然路过，
<br
>>June 29, 2006 at 1:30:26 PM GMT+8
hi, i'm a new co
>>June 28, 2006 at 5:27:48 PM GMT+8
好彩你唔係同aunt3 去學,
>>June 27, 2006 at 1:58:25 AM GMT+8
i am interest in
>>June 25, 2006 at 8:48:15 PM GMT+8
katie, 雖然常常覺得你騎呢
>>June 24, 2006 at 11:28:41 PM GMT+8
又話減肥！！！
>>June 19, 2006 at 2:53:49 PM GMT+8
i represent Gor
>>June 16, 2006 at 3:00:05 PM GMT+8
哎吔原來哥v之前咁
>>June 8, 2006 at 11:46:54 PM GMT+8
個Ｂ好得意，我都識得一個啜啜Ｂ，
>>June 7, 2006 at 10:23:56 PM GMT+8
hey katie！
<br>點
>>May 31, 2006 at 2:57:47 AM GMT+8
關於 Marie 嘅訪問，覺得其
>>May 29, 2006 at 11:05:49 AM GMT+8
一個人心地好,有自信就會漂亮~所
>>May 28, 2006 at 11:52:00 AM GMT+8
都唔知你日記寫乜........
>>May 21, 2006 at 4:44:19 PM GMT+8
你叫我留言...
<br>你話留
>>April 26, 2006 at 11:38:30 PM GMT+8
wish 嫲
>>April 19, 2006 at 8:54:46 AM GMT+8
我得左啦katie~今日有con
>>April 11, 2006 at 11:25:10 AM GMT+8
其實工作性質唔同，好難比較。不如
>>April 10, 2006 at 11:04:01 AM GMT+8
Your description
>>March 28, 2006 at 3:02:44 PM GMT+8
Wah wah wah~~~
<
>>March 19, 2006 at 12:22:06 AM GMT+8
草莓幾得意wor~~~
>>March 18, 2006 at 3:14:13 AM GMT+8
HAPPY BIRTHDAY K
>>March 16, 2006 at 6:04:57 PM GMT+8
someone you dont
>>March 16, 2006 at 5:55:23 PM GMT+8
happy birthday l
>>March 16, 2006 at 2:24:52 AM GMT+8
Hey Katie, take
>>March 7, 2006 at 11:34:57 AM GMT+8
I have problem s
>>March 5, 2006 at 10:41:03 PM GMT+8
Both my grandpas
>>February 15, 2006 at 3:57:08 PM GMT+8
祝福爺爺早日康復.
>>February 15, 2006 at 12:46:22 PM GMT+8
覺得你真係瘦咗喎！
<br>
<
>>February 2, 2006 at 6:35:06 PM GMT+8
我都好鐘意"戀愛大過天"呢首歌,
>>January 27, 2006 at 11:59:20 AM GMT+8
just scanned you
>>January 20, 2006 at 3:38:19 PM GMT+8
KATIE,以上的電郵地址係我亂
>>January 16, 2006 at 1:08:33 PM GMT+8
希望你嫲è
>>January 16, 2006 at 12:58:18 PM GMT+8
Thank you ar!
>>January 9, 2006 at 10:50:02 PM GMT+8
Happy New Year!
>>January 1, 2006 at 4:15:02 PM GMT+8
My dearest katie
>>December 26, 2005 at 3:02:27 AM GMT+8
Have a merry and
>>December 22, 2005 at 7:26:45 PM GMT+8
喂喂，我終於擺到隻歌࢒
>>December 11, 2005 at 2:10:43 AM GMT+8
calling form my
>>December 7, 2005 at 12:10:18 PM GMT+8
Merry Christmas!
>>December 5, 2005 at 2:31:30 PM GMT+8
Did you feel sic
>>December 4, 2005 at 12:57:55 PM GMT+8
Is Katie sleepin
>>November 28, 2005 at 4:00:52 PM GMT+8
Hey Katie, I rec
>>November 28, 2005 at 1:31:27 AM GMT+8
Hi! It's my firs
>>November 27, 2005 at 10:40:07 PM GMT+8
me 2, me always
>>November 26, 2005 at 9:06:17 PM GMT+8
i yau read ur di
>>November 26, 2005 at 12:29:51 PM GMT+8
no update????
<b
>>November 25, 2005 at 9:56:09 AM GMT+8
just dicovered t
>>November 23, 2005 at 2:46:20 PM GMT+8
今日好開心.....諗返起好多好
>>November 23, 2005 at 1:05:13 PM GMT+8
Katie, which one
>>November 17, 2005 at 11:52:56 PM GMT+8
Our legs are fin
>>November 16, 2005 at 12:43:33 AM GMT+8
Katie, 我已經book&#
>>November 15, 2005 at 7:20:38 PM GMT+8
Katie, I've open
>>November 14, 2005 at 10:45:32 PM GMT+8
Katie, don't fee
>>November 14, 2005 at 8:55:20 AM GMT+8
Wow, just came a
>>November 12, 2005 at 12:11:08 AM GMT+8
hehe... it's me
>>November 10, 2005 at 10:00:36 AM GMT+8
今天抽了
<br>我組的立場係反
>>November 9, 2005 at 4:29:10 PM GMT+8
Hello~
<br>i am
>>October 21, 2005 at 9:10:25 PM GMT+8
Glad to have you
>>October 17, 2005 at 10:20:48 PM GMT+8
kat, do you know
>>October 17, 2005 at 4:34:28 PM GMT+8
I like reading y
>>October 17, 2005 at 4:30:09 PM GMT+8
你好,我是一個中七的學生,一口氣
>>October 12, 2005 at 9:10:06 PM GMT+8
Its me again! It
>>October 3, 2005 at 12:27:39 PM GMT+8
long time not re
>>September 30, 2005 at 3:20:53 PM GMT+8
Katie, Jan is 38
>>August 28, 2005 at 8:18:44 PM GMT+8
不要在乎他人的眼光與世俗價值判斷
>>August 18, 2005 at 1:43:10 PM GMT+8
Add oil ar!!
>>August 1, 2005 at 5:38:16 PM GMT+8
:>
<br>Very nice
>>July 28, 2005 at 10:28:09 AM GMT+8
oh! very nice dr
>>July 28, 2005 at 3:15:14 AM GMT+8
hey katie, 成師父係咩
>>May 9, 2005 at 6:22:30 PM GMT+8
kat, i really ca
>>April 25, 2005 at 9:55:29 AM GMT+8
hi,你好嘛?請問你所提及既me
>>April 7, 2005 at 11:42:24 AM GMT+8
dear katie,
<br>
>>April 7, 2005 at 12:15:40 AM GMT+8
I love the "fill
>>March 4, 2005 at 11:44:28 AM GMT+8
thank you for yr
>>January 14, 2005 at 6:16:33 PM GMT+8
睇完你嘅日記，先記得原來膠樽係可
>>January 12, 2005 at 11:10:02 AM GMT+8
hey katie,
<br>i
>>January 10, 2005 at 2:22:15 PM GMT+8
Hi, Katie,
<br>
>>December 1, 2004 at 1:08:45 PM GMT+8
Hi katie,
<br>
<
>>September 10, 2004 at 1:43:20 PM GMT+8
Katie, i read yo
>>September 3, 2004 at 4:55:26 PM GMT+8
katie, where do
>>August 19, 2004 at 2:45:03 AM GMT+8
Hi Katie: Long
>>June 16, 2004 at 2:35:14 AM GMT+8
hey，katie！原來你都係今
>>March 17, 2004 at 2:09:22 AM GMT+8
其實食齋定食肉好，肥定瘦-隨心啦
>>February 4, 2004 at 10:56:52 AM GMT+8
gong xi fa cai!!
>>January 28, 2004 at 10:00:33 AM GMT+8
hi katie, long l
>>January 8, 2004 at 2:17:33 PM GMT+8
nothing special,
>>January 2, 2004 at 11:13:44 AM GMT+8
my teeth is ok a
>>December 5, 2003 at 10:07:05 PM GMT+8
kat.....
<br>ver
>>November 6, 2003 at 3:25:29 PM GMT+8
Sometimes ur dia
>>October 3, 2003 at 2:35:33 PM GMT+8
What an experien
>>September 28, 2003 at 3:25:41 PM GMT+8
Although I am no
>>September 27, 2003 at 3:38:47 PM GMT+8
人總是假裝沒問題，
<br>假裝
>>September 22, 2003 at 11:57:32 AM GMT+8
係咁辛苦架啦！不過俾d心機啦，時
>>September 20, 2003 at 2:39:58 AM GMT+8
so sad that U hv
>>August 17, 2003 at 3:02:56 PM GMT+8
broken up is a v
>>August 11, 2003 at 3:45:15 PM GMT+8
Thanks Katie, I
>>August 8, 2003 at 7:20:44 PM GMT+8
hey, katie
<br>i
>>August 5, 2003 at 5:35:59 PM GMT+8
siu ming hor fan
>>August 4, 2003 at 6:25:09 PM GMT+8
Wish that u find
>>August 4, 2003 at 1:23:43 PM GMT+8
kat, 心情可以嗎? The
>>August 4, 2003 at 9:03:54 AM GMT+8
Hey Girl, long t
>>August 1, 2003 at 12:12:49 PM GMT+8
Hi Katie!! Long
>>July 29, 2003 at 10:02:54 AM GMT+8
Hi, katie
<br>L
>>July 28, 2003 at 11:31:10 PM GMT+8
If you go to Win
>>June 24, 2003 at 12:12:53 AM GMT+8
Thank you for sh
>>June 21, 2003 at 1:30:30 AM GMT+8
Really enjoyed (
>>May 22, 2003 at 10:43:28 AM GMT+8
long time no rea
>>May 7, 2003 at 12:48:00 PM GMT+8
katie katie....
>>April 23, 2003 at 10:57:55 PM GMT+8
Princess
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>>April 14, 2003 at 9:21:58 PM GMT+8
看到你的網上日記,感到非常高興!
>>April 14, 2003 at 1:34:02 AM GMT+8
我整個星期都在家,因公司分成兩&
>>April 11, 2003 at 3:27:16 PM GMT+8
dear dearest kat
>>April 11, 2003 at 11:07:57 AM GMT+8
親愛的公主，
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>>April 11, 2003 at 10:48:42 AM GMT+8
kiss.... kiss...
>>April 11, 2003 at 4:34:01 AM GMT+8
don't be sad, do
>>April 10, 2003 at 7:49:00 PM GMT+8