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2005 年 5 月 19 日 星期四 【晴】
要把所學的應用在日常生活
老師說:
.....While you're working, give all your attention to your work. This is your meditation at that time. But when
you're free, even for five minutes, be aware of your sensations with open eyes. Whenever you have
nothing else to do, observe your sensations. This will give you strength while you are going about your
tasks. This is how people can use this technique in their daily lives.
還有一些老師的 Q&A 想記下來, 提提自己
Q: Can't there be wholesome cravings and aversion - for example, hating injustice, desiring freedom, fearing
physical harm?
A: Aversions and cravings can never be wholesome. They will always make you tense and unhappy. If you
act with craving or aversion in the mind, you may have a worthwhile goal, but you use an unhealthy means
to reach it. Of course you have to act to protect yourself from danger. You can do it overpowered by fear,
but by doing so you develop a fear complex which will harm you in the long run. Or with hatred in the mind,
you may be successful in fighting injustice, but that hatred will become a harmful mental complex. You must
fight injustice, you must protect yourself from danger, but you should do so with a balanced mind, without
tension. And in a balanced way, you can work to achieve something good, out of love for others. Balance of
mind is always helpful and will give the best results.
Q: What is wrong with wanting materal things to make life more comfortable?
A: If it is a real requirement, there is nothing wrong, provided you do not become attached to it. For example,
you are thirsty, and you want water; there is nothing unhealthy in that. You need water - so you work, get
it, and quench your thirst. But if it becomes an obession, that does not help at all; it harms you. Whatever
necessities you require, work to get them. If you fail to get something, then smile and try again in a different
way. If you succeed, then enjoy what you get, but without attachment.
Q: How about planning for the future? Would you call that craving?
A: Again, the criterion is whether you are attached to your plan. Everyone must provide for the future. If
your plan does not succeed and you start crying, then you know that you were attached to it. But if you are
unsuccessful and can still smile, thinking, "Well, I did my best. So what if I failed? I'll try again!" - then you are
working in a detached way, and you remian happy.
>>May 21, 2005 at 4:10:04 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 18 日 星期三 【晴】
爸爸一天長途急 call 我六次
hm........
姑姐瘋了
媽媽也失了平衡
現在
首要的是冷靜下來
>>May 21, 2005 at 3:35:23 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 17 日 星期二 【晴】
回到家
嫲嫲眼金金'看著我
"做咩望住我呀?"我問
"望下你靚唔靚囉!"
"咁靚唔靚ㄚ?"
"唔靚"
"唔靚?點解會咁架?"
"依家唔靚, 走難番嚟嗰陣靚d"
"走咩野難呀?"
"唔係走難, 個個係咩話?做完義工啱啱番嚟嗰陣靚d"
"係咩? 點解呀?"
"個陣個心清呀痳, 個心清會靚d"
"係咩?"
"係呀!依家無咁清, 所以唔靚囉!"
"依家唔清咩?哈哈哈哈......."
嫲嫲
是非常可愛的
i love u
>>May 21, 2005 at 4:32:35 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 16 日 星期一 【晴】
我跟 nico 到底會怎麼樣呢?
是一個謎........
嘩! IPSA 果然 work
皮膚改善了好多呢!
脫皮的現象不見了
>>May 16, 2005 at 12:41:12 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 15 日 星期日 【晴】
剛剛出 camp
跟 camp 裡的人談起我的空姐熱
他們說的很對
說我在離開空姐的時候還很喜歡那工作
還忘不了, 放不下那 sensation
深深的 attach 著
所以現在才會不停 crave
可能當我再當幾年空姐的時候
又會覺得不外如是
覺得不喜歡
oh
craving for certain sensation
而那sensation 不能獲得滿足的時候
真的會帶來很大的痛苦呢!
現在的心態
有空姐工照 apply
請了才再想吧!
不請了也總算做了可以做的
沒甚麼好後悔吧!
一件事的發生要很多不同因素皆具備才行
我 contribute 了my part
要看看其他因素會怎麼發展了
生命蠻 exciting 呢!!!!
出 camp 後
突然覺得很快樂
很 peaceful 和 harmonious
而這快樂是超越很多別的東西的
很奇怪的感覺
不過要記著
aware 這感覺所帶來的感受
understanding that is changing, changing
impermanent
便不會因這舒服的感覺流逝而痛苦
( OPPS.......像空姐那件事......值得反省.........)
>>May 16, 2005 at 12:21:35 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 12 日 星期四 【晴】
5 月 13 到 5 月 16
meditation camp
>>May 16, 2005 at 12:04:13 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 11 日 星期三 【晴】
明天去 meditation camp 當 server
今天同事跟 LINA 都極力反對我當空姐......
>>May 16, 2005 at 12:02:47 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 10 日 星期二 【晴】
忘了寫日記.......
>>May 16, 2005 at 12:00:53 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 9 日 星期一 【晴】
零晨四時起來去港龍 walk in
五點出門口
六點十分抵達機場
不知道結果如何
其實
我也不太清楚是否真的想做港龍
好像好辛苦似的
件事都未發生
到時有 Offer 才想吧!
>>May 10, 2005 at 3:35:06 PM GMT+8
2005 年 5 月 8 日 星期日 【晴】
今天替同事 TAROT
希望她快樂吧!
>>May 10, 2005 at 3:40:28 PM GMT+8
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>>May 30, 2007 at 3:56:44 PM GMT+8
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親愛的katie..
<br>祝
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<br
>>March 1, 2007 at 1:43:09 PM GMT+8
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>>December 2, 2006 at 4:18:41 AM GMT+8
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>>November 9, 2006 at 3:09:44 PM GMT+8
海參小姐:
<br>你沒有來我的
>>November 6, 2006 at 5:04:58 PM GMT+8
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<br>Wi
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>>September 20, 2006 at 4:26:27 PM GMT+8
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<br>
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<br
>>August 13, 2006 at 10:24:28 AM GMT+8
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>>August 7, 2006 at 7:43:55 AM GMT+8
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>>August 6, 2006 at 8:23:32 AM GMT+8
katie, 你又係星期六睇軟硬
>>July 31, 2006 at 6:15:08 PM GMT+8
Katie,
<br>揀你自己覺
>>July 13, 2006 at 10:00:39 AM GMT+8
cher katie,
<br>
>>July 12, 2006 at 3:43:25 PM GMT+8
我黎啦!哈哈!~hihihi
>>July 4, 2006 at 2:31:57 AM GMT+8
對號入座先!
>>July 3, 2006 at 9:52:53 AM GMT+8
We are connected
>>June 29, 2006 at 7:00:41 AM GMT+8
偶然路过,
<br
>>June 29, 2006 at 5:30:26 AM GMT+8
hi, i'm a new co
>>June 28, 2006 at 9:27:48 AM GMT+8
好彩你唔係同aunt3 去學,
>>June 26, 2006 at 5:58:25 PM GMT+8
i am interest in
>>June 25, 2006 at 12:48:15 PM GMT+8
katie, 雖然常常覺得你騎呢
>>June 24, 2006 at 3:28:41 PM GMT+8
又話減肥!!!
>>June 19, 2006 at 6:53:49 AM GMT+8
i represent Gor
>>June 16, 2006 at 7:00:05 AM GMT+8
哎吔原來哥v之前咁
>>June 8, 2006 at 3:46:54 PM GMT+8
個B好得意,我都識得一個啜啜B,
>>June 7, 2006 at 2:23:56 PM GMT+8
hey katie!
<br>點
>>May 30, 2006 at 6:57:47 PM GMT+8
關於 Marie 嘅訪問,覺得其
>>May 29, 2006 at 3:05:49 AM GMT+8
一個人心地好,有自信就會漂亮~所
>>May 28, 2006 at 3:52:00 AM GMT+8
都唔知你日記寫乜........
>>May 21, 2006 at 8:44:19 AM GMT+8
你叫我留言...
<br>你話留
>>April 26, 2006 at 3:38:30 PM GMT+8
wish 嫲
>>April 19, 2006 at 12:54:46 AM GMT+8
我得左啦katie~今日有con
>>April 11, 2006 at 3:25:10 AM GMT+8
其實工作性質唔同,好難比較。不如
>>April 10, 2006 at 3:04:01 AM GMT+8
Your description
>>March 28, 2006 at 7:02:44 AM GMT+8
Wah wah wah~~~
<
>>March 18, 2006 at 4:22:06 PM GMT+8
草莓幾得意wor~~~
>>March 17, 2006 at 7:14:13 PM GMT+8
HAPPY BIRTHDAY K
>>March 16, 2006 at 10:04:57 AM GMT+8
someone you dont
>>March 16, 2006 at 9:55:23 AM GMT+8
happy birthday l
>>March 15, 2006 at 6:24:52 PM GMT+8
Hey Katie, take
>>March 7, 2006 at 3:34:57 AM GMT+8
I have problem s
>>March 5, 2006 at 2:41:03 PM GMT+8
Both my grandpas
>>February 15, 2006 at 7:57:08 AM GMT+8
祝福爺爺早日康復.
>>February 15, 2006 at 4:46:22 AM GMT+8
覺得你真係瘦咗喎!
<br>
<
>>February 2, 2006 at 10:35:06 AM GMT+8
我都好鐘意"戀愛大過天"呢首歌,
>>January 27, 2006 at 3:59:20 AM GMT+8
just scanned you
>>January 20, 2006 at 7:38:19 AM GMT+8
KATIE,以上的電郵地址係我亂
>>January 16, 2006 at 5:08:33 AM GMT+8
希望你嫲è
>>January 16, 2006 at 4:58:18 AM GMT+8
Thank you ar!
>>January 9, 2006 at 2:50:02 PM GMT+8
Happy New Year!
>>January 1, 2006 at 8:15:02 AM GMT+8
My dearest katie
>>December 25, 2005 at 7:02:27 PM GMT+8
Have a merry and
>>December 22, 2005 at 11:26:45 AM GMT+8
喂喂,我終於擺到隻歌࢒
>>December 10, 2005 at 6:10:43 PM GMT+8
calling form my
>>December 7, 2005 at 4:10:18 AM GMT+8
Merry Christmas!
>>December 5, 2005 at 6:31:30 AM GMT+8
Did you feel sic
>>December 4, 2005 at 4:57:55 AM GMT+8
Is Katie sleepin
>>November 28, 2005 at 8:00:52 AM GMT+8
Hey Katie, I rec
>>November 27, 2005 at 5:31:27 PM GMT+8
Hi! It's my firs
>>November 27, 2005 at 2:40:07 PM GMT+8
me 2, me always
>>November 26, 2005 at 1:06:17 PM GMT+8
i yau read ur di
>>November 26, 2005 at 4:29:51 AM GMT+8
no update????
<b
>>November 25, 2005 at 1:56:09 AM GMT+8
just dicovered t
>>November 23, 2005 at 6:46:20 AM GMT+8
今日好開心.....諗返起好多好
>>November 23, 2005 at 5:05:13 AM GMT+8
Katie, which one
>>November 17, 2005 at 3:52:56 PM GMT+8
Our legs are fin
>>November 15, 2005 at 4:43:33 PM GMT+8
Katie, 我已經book&#
>>November 15, 2005 at 11:20:38 AM GMT+8
Katie, I've open
>>November 14, 2005 at 2:45:32 PM GMT+8
Katie, don't fee
>>November 14, 2005 at 12:55:20 AM GMT+8
Wow, just came a
>>November 11, 2005 at 4:11:08 PM GMT+8
hehe... it's me
>>November 10, 2005 at 2:00:36 AM GMT+8
今天抽了
<br>我組的立場係反
>>November 9, 2005 at 8:29:10 AM GMT+8
Hello~
<br>i am
>>October 21, 2005 at 1:10:25 PM GMT+8
Glad to have you
>>October 17, 2005 at 2:20:48 PM GMT+8
kat, do you know
>>October 17, 2005 at 8:34:28 AM GMT+8
I like reading y
>>October 17, 2005 at 8:30:09 AM GMT+8
你好,我是一個中七的學生,一口氣
>>October 12, 2005 at 1:10:06 PM GMT+8
Its me again! It
>>October 3, 2005 at 4:27:39 AM GMT+8
long time not re
>>September 30, 2005 at 7:20:53 AM GMT+8
Katie, Jan is 38
>>August 28, 2005 at 12:18:44 PM GMT+8
不要在乎他人的眼光與世俗價值判斷
>>August 18, 2005 at 5:43:10 AM GMT+8
Add oil ar!!
>>August 1, 2005 at 9:38:16 AM GMT+8
:>
<br>Very nice
>>July 28, 2005 at 2:28:09 AM GMT+8
oh! very nice dr
>>July 27, 2005 at 7:15:14 PM GMT+8
hey katie, 成師父係咩
>>May 9, 2005 at 10:22:30 AM GMT+8
kat, i really ca
>>April 25, 2005 at 1:55:29 AM GMT+8
hi,你好嘛?請問你所提及既me
>>April 7, 2005 at 3:42:24 AM GMT+8
dear katie,
<br>
>>April 6, 2005 at 4:15:40 PM GMT+8
I love the "fill
>>March 4, 2005 at 3:44:28 AM GMT+8
thank you for yr
>>January 14, 2005 at 10:16:33 AM GMT+8
睇完你嘅日記,先記得原來膠樽係可
>>January 12, 2005 at 3:10:02 AM GMT+8
hey katie,
<br>i
>>January 10, 2005 at 6:22:15 AM GMT+8
Hi, Katie,
<br>
>>December 1, 2004 at 5:08:45 AM GMT+8
Hi katie,
<br>
<
>>September 10, 2004 at 5:43:20 AM GMT+8
Katie, i read yo
>>September 3, 2004 at 8:55:26 AM GMT+8
katie, where do
>>August 18, 2004 at 6:45:03 PM GMT+8
Hi Katie: Long
>>June 15, 2004 at 6:35:14 PM GMT+8
hey,katie!原來你都係今
>>March 16, 2004 at 6:09:22 PM GMT+8
其實食齋定食肉好,肥定瘦-隨心啦
>>February 4, 2004 at 2:56:52 AM GMT+8
gong xi fa cai!!
>>January 28, 2004 at 2:00:33 AM GMT+8
hi katie, long l
>>January 8, 2004 at 6:17:33 AM GMT+8
nothing special,
>>January 2, 2004 at 3:13:44 AM GMT+8
my teeth is ok a
>>December 5, 2003 at 2:07:05 PM GMT+8
kat.....
<br>ver
>>November 6, 2003 at 7:25:29 AM GMT+8
Sometimes ur dia
>>October 3, 2003 at 6:35:33 AM GMT+8
What an experien
>>September 28, 2003 at 7:25:41 AM GMT+8
Although I am no
>>September 27, 2003 at 7:38:47 AM GMT+8
人總是假裝沒問題,
<br>假裝
>>September 22, 2003 at 3:57:32 AM GMT+8
係咁辛苦架啦!不過俾d心機啦,時
>>September 19, 2003 at 6:39:58 PM GMT+8
so sad that U hv
>>August 17, 2003 at 7:02:56 AM GMT+8
broken up is a v
>>August 11, 2003 at 7:45:15 AM GMT+8
Thanks Katie, I
>>August 8, 2003 at 11:20:44 AM GMT+8
hey, katie
<br>i
>>August 5, 2003 at 9:35:59 AM GMT+8
siu ming hor fan
>>August 4, 2003 at 10:25:09 AM GMT+8
Wish that u find
>>August 4, 2003 at 5:23:43 AM GMT+8
kat, 心情可以嗎? The
>>August 4, 2003 at 1:03:54 AM GMT+8
Hey Girl, long t
>>August 1, 2003 at 4:12:49 AM GMT+8
Hi Katie!! Long
>>July 29, 2003 at 2:02:54 AM GMT+8
Hi, katie
<br>L
>>July 28, 2003 at 3:31:10 PM GMT+8
If you go to Win
>>June 23, 2003 at 4:12:53 PM GMT+8
Thank you for sh
>>June 20, 2003 at 5:30:30 PM GMT+8
Really enjoyed (
>>May 22, 2003 at 2:43:28 AM GMT+8
long time no rea
>>May 7, 2003 at 4:48:00 AM GMT+8
katie katie....
>>April 23, 2003 at 2:57:55 PM GMT+8
Princess
<br>wri
>>April 14, 2003 at 1:21:58 PM GMT+8
看到你的網上日記,感到非常高興!
>>April 13, 2003 at 5:34:02 PM GMT+8
我整個星期都在家,因公司分成兩&
>>April 11, 2003 at 7:27:16 AM GMT+8
dear dearest kat
>>April 11, 2003 at 3:07:57 AM GMT+8
親愛的公主,
<br>
<br>
>>April 11, 2003 at 2:48:42 AM GMT+8
kiss.... kiss...
>>April 10, 2003 at 8:34:01 PM GMT+8
don't be sad, do
>>April 10, 2003 at 11:49:00 AM GMT+8
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