2004 年 10 月 10 日 星期日 【晴】

<< Letter of my mentor and me >>
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Dear Maira,

Sorry for replying so late too due to the busy working load.Today is
Sunday, I will to church cell soon, and have some relax time.
Recent days, I'm busy in finding part-time since I haven't any income to
support daily expense, >.< poor!!! Also, I indulge in doing homework,
program assignment which spared me 46 hours to do it, and some work of the
CCSU. It is a bit tight for time control. Majors problems are finding part
time job and studying as they both are out of control of me, job is not
chosen by me and computer is diffuclt to learn.
Actually, I don't have strong interest in any field, but BBA. While BBA
is not practical, so I choose a practical major to study and learn some BBA
on spare time, for instance, I have just past the examination of " 保險中介人考試
" paper I, III, and IV recently. After studing for a year in SEEM,
I do find some interest in constructing DataBase and I think I will put some
effort in it.

Best regards,
Penny.

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> Dear Penny
>
> So happy to receive your email and to hear something about yourself.
>
> Why did you switch from HKU to CUHK in 2003?
>
> Which year are you in at this stage, and what is your ideal job after your
> graduation?
>
> Being a science stream student, would you like to continue your study as a
> professional scientist - in which area?
>
> I have a friend who is studying for a PhD in Biological Science, and she is
> doing some very interesting research which is related to medical science.
>
> With the SARS, the impact of microbiology, the bio-chemistry and understanding
> of mutated genes and viruses are areas which would need investigation and study.
> I wonder if you are interested in these areas- which will help the well being of
> mankind?
>
> My major was in social science, and social work, so I was more oriented to the
> needs of the society, of individual beings. Then, I further narrowed my interest
> into preschool education, which is quite an interesting area too. I have written
> three children story books which were published many years ago.
>
> My present profession is in Teachers' Training, and my students would become
> kindergarten teachers after they graduate. The moral and ethics of a teacher is
> very important, and so I stress very much on our students' behaviour,
> politeness, responsibility and creativity. I hope that my students could become
> good and caring teachers of children.
>
> I have a good sense of humour, and I like to talk to my students as a friend
> and mentor. As I am a Head of Department, I only do very little teaching, and
> most of my job is on administration, planning and supervision. However, I enjoy
> teaching my students and each year I would teach one or two classes on
> "Curriculum and Practices."
>
> Now I am busy preparing for my research proposal for my PhD study.
>
> Talk to you later!
> God bless you
>
> Maria
>
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> > Dear Maria,
> >
> > Sorry for replying the letter so late, since I have some homework need to do
> > recently,
> > thus make me need to spare some time on it.
> > It is really reget for me to ignoring your letter for about two days.
> >
> > Now, it's my turn to introduce myself.
> > I am Kwok Fu Wah, penny, which is the name of my famous NBA star,
> > undergraduate of HKU in 02-03, undergraduate of CUHK from 03.
> > My secondary school is Carmel Divine Grace Foundation Sec. Sch in Tseung
> > Kwan O,
> > where is near my home. I was a science stream student before, and now being
> > a engineering student as you know.
> >
> > In weekends or free time, I like readings and sporting, while listening
> > songs or go out for play are even less.
> > I would like to listen from your sharing to me, no matter what kind of
> > experience you had.
> >
> > I'm very humour indeed, when coming in the first meeting you may know this.
> >
> > Hear from you.
> >
> > Best regard,
> > penny
> >
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> >
> > > Dear Fu-wah,
> > >
> > > Let me first introduce myself to you -
> > > I am appointed to be your mentor, and have just received some
> > > information about you.
> > >
> > > I am Maria Lee Lai Wan, graduate of Social Work Dept in CCC in 1973.
> > > Eversince, I had been a social worker in Social Welfare Dept, and later
> > > in the Training Section of the SWD.
> > >
> > > I had spent a year in Newcastle-upon-Tyne (UK) to study early childhood
> > > education in 1978.
> > >
> > > I'd started a new training course for child care workers in the Lee Wai
> > > Lee Technical Institute in 1980, and have stayed here since then. The
> > > name of the institute is now HK Institute of Vocational Education (Lee
> > > Wai Lee) and my dept's name is Child Education and Community Services. I
> > > am the Head and Principal Lecturer of this dept.
> > >
> > > Under my dept we offer Higher Diploma and Diploma courses - on child
> > > education and also on Community Education (Gerontology) i.e. care of the
> > > elderly.
> > >
> > > I am a Catholic, and I like art, and storytelling.
> > >
> > > You may click into my dept's web site to look at some of the things we
> > > do here -
> > > www.kg.vtc.edu.hk
> > >
> > > I have a few publications on early childhood education, and also on arts
> > > and craft.
> > >
> > > I hope to hear from you soon, and that we can communicate through email
> > > more often!
> > >
> > > God bless you
> > >
> > > Maria
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>>October 13, 2004 at 12:19:07 PM GMT+8

2004 年 10 月 9 日 星期六 【晴】

<< 好懶 / 媽媽的幸福 >>
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唔知點解...
一返到屋企就會好懶...

今日同媽媽飲茶...
見到媽媽有十萬個開心...

因為媽媽同我們三兄弟一齊...

我知道媽媽最大的幸福...
就是我們三兄弟...
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>>October 10, 2004 at 1:13:36 AM GMT+8

2004 年 10 月 6 日 星期三 【晴】

<< 估唔到 >>
========================
話說尋夜...撞親之後...
我同房lo ...病左...

我因為撞親個頭...
頭痛唔舒服...
好早訓左...

點知...訓到半夜...
發覺自已又病埋...

攪到...自已只係返左頭兩頭...
下午...走哂所有堂...
返左房訓覺...

現在好了好多...
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>>October 7, 2004 at 1:15:26 AM GMT+8

2004 年 10 月 5 日 星期二 【晴】

<< 好撞 >>
========================
今夜溫溫下書時...
竟然不小心撞親個頭...
好痛...

沖涼時...發覺個頭起左個"樓"...

都是因為玩果張碌碌櫈所致...
唉...

好痛...
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>>October 6, 2004 at 12:23:55 AM GMT+8

2004 年 10 月 3 日 星期日 【晴】

<< 又是星期日的中大+踩單車 >>
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一生人最人朋友kk...起十月二日生日...
星期六就同左玲...lo...ben焦...屎急龍...梁軒...
去左旺角打邊爐...
我都有成半年無見過kk 囉...
雖然佢都係讀中大...
不過起shaw...
我起cc...

跟住番左中大...
因為諗住星期日要起中大做成日lab...
點知...

原來d人話個lab好易做...
唔洗十分鐘就可以做完...
唉...
早知就回家啦...

星期日溫完書...
我已經自修左seg 3570...
又自修左seg 3460...
今日又攪點埋seg 4630...
好勁...
仲有三科要自修...要+油啦...

十一點几...起lab做完野...
立刻約...人去玩...
約左 jeff....同埋k 小姐又去玩左一晚...
踩左成三個几鐘單車...
真係人都癲...

明天要番學啦...
今個sem我要讀好d書...

我讀中大真係無錯...
好開心...

前日忍唔住...睇番cindy icq info...
知道左佢去過美國...
好好...

分開左對我同佢都有好大改變...

無悔...中大...
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>>October 4, 2004 at 4:40:39 AM GMT+8

2004 年 10 月 2 日 星期六 【晴】

<< 寫 program >>
==================================
最近e 几日我做大一份功課...
就係寫 program...
佢做左我成四十六小時...

不過終於做完了...

不過不過下星期仲有四功課要交...
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>>October 2, 2004 at 12:25:47 PM GMT+8

2004 年 9 月 28 日 星期二 【晴】

<< 你偷過野未呀 >>
============================
今夜看到一個關於偷竊的港台節目...
立刻聯想到自已從小到現在試過偷竊了沒有...

我第一件事是問我哥哥...
「你有沒有試過偷東西呢？」

哥哥真的用心想了一回...
「試過呀！記得起在幼稚園時候！」
「我試過偷下午茶的小玩具﹑食餘的餅乾。」

「還記得那時將偷回來的餅乾擺在書包內﹐
被書全壓碎了！」

哈哈！
我聽了後覺得十分好笑！

我呢？偷過了東西沒有？
當然有啦！

我常日都偷人個心啦！

中六那年的今天﹐中秋節...
我就是偷了那女仔的心...
雖然她已經離開我一年半多了...
不過我還記得那時整個過程了...

現在雖然全沒有感覺...
不過都是我第一次...
哈哈！

今年中秋都是做功課罷了！
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>>September 29, 2004 at 3:18:31 PM GMT+8

2004 年 9 月 27 日 星期一 【晴】

<< 星期日的中大 >>
===========================================
好開心呀...因為我終於有一張自已o既碌碌凳呀...
同個傻婆起籃田...實惠買...
不過就要我一個人拎兩張...
好辛苦...

跟住最開心...就係自己一手一腳砌左張凳...

不過...就好鬼煩...
因為要返會室幫jeff手整學生週d野...
不過jeff佢本人就唔鬼起度...
頂...

不過開心...呀
有凳坐啦...

要+oil 做功課呀...
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>>September 27, 2004 at 1:24:56 AM GMT+8

2004 年 9 月 25 日 星期六 【晴】

不輕易發怒的, 勝過勇士; 治服己心的, 強如取城。(箴言十六章32節)

>>September 25, 2004 at 11:17:16 PM GMT+8

2004 年 9 月 25 日 星期六 【晴】

<< 誰願放手?? >>
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一個值得深思的故事

告訴你一宗意外。

這是一個早上，媽媽正在廚房清洗早餐的碗碟。

她有一個四歲的小孩子，自得其樂地在沙發上玩耍，
不久之後，媽媽聽到孩子的哭啼聲。

究竟發生什麼事呢？媽媽還沒有將手抹乾，
就衝出去客廳看看孩子去了哪裡。

原來，孩子仍坐在沙發上；
但是，他的手卻插進了放在茶几上的花樽裡。

花樽是上窄下闊的一款，所以，
他的手伸了入去，但伸不出來。

母親用了不同的辦法，
把卡著了的手拿出來，但都不得要領。

媽媽開始焦急，她稍為用力一點，
小孩子就痛得叫苦連天。

在無計可施的情況下，
媽媽想了一個下策，就是把花樽打碎。

可是她稍有猶豫，因為這個花樽不是普通的花樽，
而是一件價值連城的古董。

不過，為了兒子的手能夠拔出，這是唯一的辦法。

結果，她忍痛將花樽打破了。

雖然損失不菲，但兒子平平安安，
媽媽也就不太計較了。

她叫兒子將手伸給她看看有沒有損傷。

雖然孩子完全沒有任何皮外傷，
但他的拳頭仍是緊握住似的，無法張開。

是不是抽筋呢？

媽媽又再驚惶失措。

原來，小孩子的手不是抽筋。

他的拳頭張不開，是因為他緊捉著一個十元硬幣。

他是為了拾這一個硬幣，所以令手卡在花樽的口內。

小孩子的手伸不出來，其實，不是因為花樽口太窄，而是因為他不肯放手。

感情的事，很多時都是盲目的。

你曾為他做的，當日，你是多麼的覺得天經地義；今天，你卻感到荒謬到極。

盲目是幸福的，只要盲目能維持一生一世。

問題是，有一天，我和你都會像小孩子一樣，
發現自己被感情問題卡住了，動彈不得。
問題出現了，你煩得天都要倒下來。

你希望尋求方法解脫，但全都徒勞。

別人說：「問題不是你所想的複雜，只是你肯放手就解決了。」

你卻偏偏不肯放手。

這時，你不會想：「這樣值不值？」

你只會自問：「我還愛不愛？」

只要是愛，你覺得再沒有甚麼要猶豫。

你會很努力解決彼此之間的問題。

你一直守去，你不會放手。

其實，放手就立刻解決問題，只是大家都逃避這個事實。

你寧願受著牢籠，都不願解脫。

這段感情值得這樣磨下去嗎？」

你的朋友會勸你放棄。

你不相信，這份愛，只是一枚十元硬幣。

你忍痛執著這份感情，不惜代價，消耗了許多眼淚，
虛度了不少的歲月， 粉碎了很多機會。

放手，帶來更大的釋放。

為了區區十元，打碎了一個古董花樽，
小孩子當時不會了解，也不會後悔，
因為那時資訊不全。

他不了解他執著那個硬幣的機會成本是那麼大。

他長大了之後，才會了解花樽的價值，才會明白自己昔日的愚昧。

你固執感情，不肯放手；我只好惟願你不會長大。
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快樂不是用追求得來的，而是發現得來的，
凡事總有好的一面，只在於我們願不願意去發現而已；
快樂的人懂得惜福，他們從不埋怨自己缺少什麼，
而會去珍惜自己擁有什麼。
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>>September 25, 2004 at 11:12:46 PM GMT+8