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2004 年 3 月 21 日 星期日 【晴】
我都覺得傾下係好事黎既
但就唔係次次出黎都係咁SERIOUS 既
有時累個陣, 做完一大堆野既時候,想見下你地,同一班人吹下水,大笑下,都唔係一件壞事呀! 舒服D呀嘛!
但我LEE 排真係好忙
或者月尾或下個月會唔會好D呢?
Naomi
>>March 21, 2004 at 4:47:32 PM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 20 日 星期六 【晴】
睇黎我地真係須要一個talk meeting~
大家都有好多擺左係心裡好耐既野~
ps 我完全明白tube你講緊咩
但原來我同你心事既definition係唔同ga
我既definiation係一d關於自己一d, 把自己一d感覺,
如對自省之後有咩結論, 有冇係d咩過程學到d 咩,人生觀,新價值觀個d
當然都inculde tube你所講個d啦~~
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>>March 21, 2004 at 3:55:20 AM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 20 日 星期六 【晴】
Tube,
I understand your point, I know your confusion
I think you're right!! Not everyone knows everything.
Maybe the problem is "there are too much small group meeting", and every large meeting
was like a party, so we did not want to say any private or unhappy things, suggested not
to talk about it.
Jennifer
>>March 20, 2004 at 5:28:56 PM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 20 日 星期六 【晴】
P.S.
想有進步,唔係 meeting 先要有 deep communication,如果平時有咩事都唔知,唔講,一泥 meeting 先講心事,跟本好難做到,正如如果你平時番學又唔聽書,番去又唔做功課,又唔會睇書,淨係考試你先會温書,你到時會唔會覺得甩曬轆,跟本唔知發生緊咩事泥,咁都唔會有進步,進步唔係一朝一夕0既...
>>March 20, 2004 at 4:58:34 PM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 20 日 星期六 【晴】
To ++,
我唔係誤會你0既意思,只係我想你明白唔係單靠 meeting 就會有進步,你地發生事0既時候,唔係0係 meeting 0既時候,大家唔會見住你有特別事發生,心事0既野,唔會 meeting 時先有,冇 meeting 就冇...咁你有心事時,你都唔會 call 曬全部人出泥同你傾,你都可能淨係話比一個知,咁其他人都唔會知嫁...
咁都係靠佢地講番出泥,但係佢都唔會續一打電話講,都係傳下傳下先會個個知,但問題就係,你話唔係講緊一對一,or 小圈子,但係心事 lee 樣野就緊係唔會揀時候出現,有 meeting 先有心事,咁就好靠平時大家都有溝通,咁有 meeting 大家咪再拎番出泥大家一齊講,一齊知...
我0既問題就係咁你地唔會第一個話我知,我都係收番泥先知,咁到我知時,又知得 d,你地又叫我問當事人,(你地個個都知發生緊咩事)但係我仲係懵醒醒...但你話想 meeting 時講心事,但次次有 meeting 時你地又叫我唔好問唔好提...咁我好 confuse,咁即係宜家 meeting 時我可以問定係又唔好提,平事我問你地時,你地會繼續 prefer 我搵當事人問,定係你地都願意答我呢...
椰 tube~
>>March 20, 2004 at 4:48:54 PM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 20 日 星期六 【晴】
唔好意思
tube
我唔知你有冇誤會我既意思
我既意思係當我地成班人一齊
好少講deep野
我唔係講緊邊個搵邊個~
我係想我地一大班人一齊時講多d心事
唔好成日講d 娛樂性既野
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>>March 20, 2004 at 4:12:15 PM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 19 日 星期五 【晴】
To ALL,
其實我一路都想講...我都有試過同你地有深 d 0既 communication,宜我第一個試0既就係 lawlaw...因為我感覺佢多 d 時間比朋友,但次次我打比佢,佢都話同人傾緊 or 唔得閒,佢話佢遲 d 覆我,但最後可能佢真係太忙,佢最終都冇覆過我...
第二個我試 ada...0係 icq...
其實我都好着緊我同你地0既 relationship...但每當我知道你地有咩事發生,我問你地,你地會叫我問當事人,但係見到當事人時,你地又會叫我唔好問,唔好提...如是者,我最後都係唔知發生過咩事...
我今年實在太忙 lar,我尋晚留左係 city 同 d 同學通頂...我暫時都唔能夠成日單獨咁搵你地 or 打比你地,我會繼續用 lee 個 diary 同你地溝通,等我完左 build expo,我會努力d,放多 d 時間落泥嫁 lar...
但係我宜家都係好想解決咁我想知時應該問邊個呢?!
椰 tube~
>>March 20, 2004 at 8:15:14 AM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 19 日 星期五 【晴】
dear jen
hoho~ thx for replying ~ hoho
so my KAIKAi will not appear sometimes also~hohoho~
let hav sharing meeting after jen presentation~hoho
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>>March 20, 2004 at 3:46:06 AM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 18 日 星期四 【晴】
Dear all,
Actually I agree with Ka Ka, we are lack of communication, indepth communication,
we seldom share our personal things with others. I think it's not we are not willing to share, it's
because we are too busy.
Everyone has her own schedule, it's difficult for us to match. Recently, our meetings were always birthday celebration, maybe it was not a good time to talk about personal things or sad things in parties.
Ka Ka, I also think that "kitkit" appear is not very good, before you post this message, I have already
talked with him. We agreed that "he comes only when everyone wants him to come"
Maybe let's have a "sharing meeting" !!! (After my public presentation is better!)
Regards,
Jennifer
>>March 19, 2004 at 3:49:37 PM GMT+8
2004 年 3 月 18 日 星期四 【晴】
有一樣野我發現左好耐
唔知大家有冇同感
不知從何時開始
我覺得我地成group人冇咩交流(deep)
當然我地有單對單or little group的聚會
但我講緊既係整個大圍人
每當我地一齊時總不再說心事, 感受
通常說一些娛樂呀, 笑話呀, 總之一d 同我地”心”冇關既野
就suen 有都好少
我覺得一team 人要進步係須要有多d deep 既交流
就suen 俾comment大家都好少
有時覺得對方一些什麼也可說說,可彈可讚
包容不代表不理
除此之外我真係覺得我地好少講自己既感覺, 心事
生活上其實有好多野可以分享
冇可否認我地對大家有深認識
但人會變
可能大家都不知對方怎樣了
久而久之
大家距離會愈來愈遠
我不是認為什麼事也要逐一告訴各位
只是..我們太少交流了
我有建議
有些活動是girls only--girls night
唔須要次次
可能3:1/4:1
我知tube 同jen 可能好少見到bf
有時間都想一齊(同bf)一齊(我地)(vice versa)
但我覺得可能佢地真係唔知道我地咁多個咁多
一方面我地(可能)冇咁方便一方面佢地可能悶 or 根本唔知
我覺得不多不少都有少少~唔知大家點睇
大家有任何意見歡迎提出
我也一直搞d作令大家交流多d
如時間x,同下一次既問答遊戲
唔知大家點睇
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>>March 19, 2004 at 2:01:52 PM GMT+8
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