2002 年 11 月 17 日 星期日 【晴】

Yesterady I was very happy and enjoy my group's event....... Karaoke & BBQ~~ALL DAY...yeah~~
Although there are not every group members there, I still feel that is a good beinnig of a new group......
new+old= my group.....~its not a big change.......

>>>>>2002.11.17
11:00am~2:00pm
....we went to karaoke in TW.......(they are not really want to go....they feel sleepy....I know. but I still feel happy, THX~>>>) they go with me...and my brother.....long time no sing la!!!! I love it!!!

>>>>>2:15pm~4:00pm
....we were preparing the BBQ's need, such as food, drink,....etc.
The special thing is we have to prepare the seafood....Gary's love""
I bought my home's BBQ thing used before, reuse again.......Yeah~

>>>>>4:30pm-5:00pm
.....we arrived at Tai Mo Shan, that was a cold day yersterday. luckly, Chek Ting had car....more effective.
thx him~....we were easily to find the hot plate.

>>>>>5:00pm-6:00pm
....we were set the hot plate, and prepared the sea food. Special thx to fat cat and Gary.....hehe~

>>>>>6:00pm-9:00pm
....we started to barbecue.......HAPPY........cold........funny........closed........soild relationship.....FULL....we all having....
Thanks GOD~........during the BBQ, it seemed to be rain.....but finaly it did not........drouble THX~ It did not force we leave.....
Although there are only 2 girls...ME & my friend, Ball Ball.....I only hope we can increase the no. of girl in the coming year............but all brothers also be good to me............Thank you to U all~~~

WE CAN BE HAPPY WITH EACH OTHER AR~~
SMALL GROUP SUCH BE LIKE THAT.......
I HOPE GOOD BEINNING........BRING A NEW LIFE..........

GARY, MR.CAT, FAI TSUEN, FLY, CHEK TING, FISH, JAN, BALL, WING, COW, SAMUEL, CECILIA, RICKY, FAI, JOEY, BEN, ME............AND MANY NEW FRIENDS.......S.........S......s........s........
~~~LOVE YOU ALL~~~

P.s. sorry to forget anyone.........
****^^^^^^*****THANKS GOD TO GIVE US WAY`~******^^^^^^*****

>>November 18, 2002 at 6:00:42 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 15 日 星期五 【晴】

HAPPY BIRTHDAY...............HAPPY................

>>November 16, 2002 at 2:41:38 PM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 15 日 星期五 【雨】

傳 道 書
1:2 傳道者說，虛空的虛空，虛空的虛空。凡事都是虛空。
1:3 人一切的勞碌，就是他在日光之下的勞碌，有甚麼益處呢。
1:8 萬事令人厭煩〔或作萬物滿有困乏〕人不能說盡。眼看，看不飽，耳聽，聽不足。
1:9 已有的事，後必再有。已行的事，後必再行。日光之下並無新事。
1:10 豈有一件事人能指著說，這是新的。那知，在我們以前的世代，早已有了。
1:11 已過的世代，無人記念，將來的世代，後來的人也不記念。
1:13 我專心用智慧尋求查究天下所作的一切事，乃知　神叫世人所經練的，是極重的勞苦。
1:14 我見日光之下所作的一切事，都是虛空，都是捕風。
1:15 彎曲的不能變直。缺少的不能足數 。
1:16 我心裡議論，說，我得了大智慧，勝過我以前在耶路撒冷的眾人。而且我心中多經歷智慧，和知識的事。
1:17 我又專心察明智慧狂妄，和愚昧。乃知這也是捕風。
1:18 因為多有智慧，就多有愁煩。加增知識的，就加增憂傷。
2:1 我心裡說，來罷，我以喜樂試試你，你好享福。誰知，這也是虛空。
2:2 我指嬉笑說，這是狂妄。論喜樂說，有何功效呢。

>>November 16, 2002 at 1:54:41 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 15 日 星期五 【晴】

What should I do??prefect planning......................NO LA~~~
吃力不討好..............
愈是靠著你, 愈要放下自己............
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I saw a film today..............''模倣犯''....................
that's give me some messages...................
IF U WANT TO BE A HERO, ITS NOT TO DO A BIG BIG DEAL TO ATTRACT PPLS,
IT LEARN HOW TO LOVE WHO DON'T LOVE.....................
HOW TO LOVE AND LET THE LOVE RETURN...............

>>November 15, 2002 at 5:48:50 PM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 14 日 星期四 【晴】

今晚要最開心！
Wish u have a wonderful birthday............@ may..>>>>>>

>>November 15, 2002 at 3:34:24 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 13 日 星期三 【晴】

今朝，我過馬路時，見到個媽咪同個細路女。When the taffic light is red, the mum said: "Let's go!" as no car there.........suddenly, 個細路女話："吾好呀！" (so cute!) she is wearing a uniform of 幼稚園. Mum is shocking about her daughter said. When the taffic light become green, we were crossing. On the other hand, the mum asked :" why don't we cross before?" 個細路女話："紅燈嗎?！"
<<<<<.....a simply question with a simply answer.........>>>>>
The heart is simply when we were young.

神在最初就是叫我們這樣..............簡........簡........單........單..............的成長............
以 弗 所 書 1:4 "就如 神從創立世界以前，在基督裡揀選了我們，使我們在他面前成為聖潔，無有瑕疵。"

愈是長大，愈不可能簡單的成長............要笑，就笑；要喊，就喊。
以 弗 所 書 3:20 " 神照著運行在我們心裡的大力，充充足足的成就一切超過我們所求所想的。

Happy Birthady to Ka Chun @@@20021114***
由美

>>November 14, 2002 at 2:32:42 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 12 日 星期二 【晴】

I knew a guy more recently........I should say "Thanks a lot!" to him.....I think he won't mind that I posted his message here.....
he encouraged me as follow:

"雖然下半年小組未必如你所想,
但可能是神在當中叫你成長.
'放低過去,展望將來,'
在我認識的阿May,是一個活潑/常在臉上找到笑容/
平易近人和好Nice的女仔,
為何日記中苦多過樂呢???
常活在過去,好難打開將來.
妳想下年小組怎樣?
是在乎妳和各人(就是打開小組將來的:-Dey)
我唸妳都想一齊去打開它.
Let's Go May ~"Open The Future In 2004"
"I Know You Can Do Well In This Group,
Trust Yourself "

I want to emphasis on：常活在過去,好難打開將來......to anyone you need......
I know what should I do........
I hope you all can know me more through this diary.........that's real me........
Don't angry with my words if I write something you don't like........
you all can tell me.......ok???
THX~~
love@may

>>November 13, 2002 at 3:12:50 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 12 日 星期二 【晴】

hello~~2002.11.13
happy ma???.........It's a wonderful night last night for my best friend, Ball Ball.........
I hope she will appreciate what we did for her......---wear a new accessory, new life!
"" HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO BALL BALL & FRIENDSHIP FOREVER! ""........ok?

Last night I meet some old friends.......feel strange!......can you see me??
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FOR CHUN:
Be great in your way..........you have to face ma????
Wherever you are, I'll always support you, ok??
Control yourself..........love yourself more...........GOD LOVE YOU.........I LOVE YOU~~
FRIENDSHIP FOREVER!!
may@office

>>November 13, 2002 at 1:59:40 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 11 日 星期一 【晴】

Mr/Miss Right 的迷思

許多人往往在抉擇伴侶時，容易東想西想，不知所措，就是因為害怕一時做錯決定，看錯人，造成終生的遺憾。

諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說：「此時此刻在地球上，約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶， 就看你先遇到哪一個，如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出相知相惜 、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友，但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養出深層關係，感情就容易動搖、變心，直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位 擁有穩固的深情，才是幸福的開始，漂泊的結束。」

愛上一個人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「際遇」，是上天的安排，但是「持續地愛一個人」 就要靠「努力」，在愛情的經營中，順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。

有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱，意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散，而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。

所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的 Mr.Right/Miss Right，而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中，我能努力到什麼程度、成長到什麼程度，若沒 有培養出經營幸福的能力，就算真的Mr/Miss Right出現在你身邊，幸福依然會錯過的，而活在猶疑與遺憾當中，這不就是許多愛情虛 無症的遭遇與心態嗎？

若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶，不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了， 我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律「邊際效益遞減法則」，跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不 確定的未知數，舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。

千萬不要隨便在偶然的「 際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，所以要知福惜福、活在當下。

>>November 12, 2002 at 8:27:35 AM GMT+8

2002 年 11 月 11 日 星期一 【晴】

last night is my friend's 孫 birthday..we were going to have hot-pot.....so happy that I can see.....
for me, birthday is not a big deal anymore.....the more you grown, the least time you can do what you want....

Last night, when I arrived home........there are many ppls in my place........Although they are my family members......
I still love peaceable.......without anyone......It's strange to say I am like that......
Long time no living with my family ....... I cherish them, but......I don't know how to say that.......
too many ppls............

My best friend, Ball Ball's birthday soon ........I made a album that full of our trip's photo.......for her.........as she forgot to bring camera in our trip.......I get my peaceable time last night.......from 12-3..am........... I sit outside of my house........
When I look at our funny photo......That's our time........we have not get it before. we are old friend......within 4 girls...Jelly, Wong wai, Ball & me......can we love more?? having others cannot say??........I feel disappointed....we have no much time to love.....to talk....to share....Don't afraid everything, ok???...........Another friend will get back to USA soon !!!!!......one month later.....I think she had changed.......I have a awfully strange feeling to her.........Can I help her???......she has a messy thinking......in her love knot........just pray for her........me.........him...........
may@office

>>November 12, 2002 at 6:04:06 AM GMT+8