2011 年 10 月 2 日 星期日 【晴】

其實好想同 Sheng 一樣，大大反駁他媽媽．
傾左８個月先話要擇日子．
擇左喇，又係兩星期後提出 Sheng 犯太歲，要係”今年”結．
好啦，就埋您，到今日為止又 up 唔出個日子～
您想點呀！！！

由原本沒有 planning (一年半前)，到我 move 到 Sheng 同我一起去 plan (八個月前)～　您現在一聲發了，要大家跟隨著 @ _ @ ~

我計劃好曬 Macau 戈場婚禮，deposit 曬，您又係一大伙人面前話我做乜咁快，做乜咁想嫁．"Excuse me, this is planning~ and this is securing our March's wedding lor~"　　

Now you are not caring much what will come and you just demand that date~ >.< ~

You know~ if we get married in Jan 2012, we have to give red pockets in 2012~ we have to rent the place for 2 months more~ then live together and pay expenses for 2 extra months~ We have our plans & budget~ if we opt for April, we can make it...

Am I ready to be someone's wife by 2012?

一般趕趕趕結婚都係 d 奉子的人．．．我唔係 lor~~~

>>October 3, 2011 at 4:39:46 AM GMT+8

2011 年 10 月 1 日 星期六 【晴】

My iWedding app reminds me that there are 5 months 6 days, 18h 32m, 41s left until our BIG DAY. However, Sheng confirmed that his mom is requesting us to get married before the year of the Dragon (2012, Jan 23).

Mentally I am quite clam and welcome the idea. But Sheng is getting annoyed this time. Our first plan was 15 April, one of the factor is for my long-term deposit to be due. And then we had ideas for 29 April, 9 March... Sheng is worrying the funds - renting apartment especially if we are getting married in Jan.

>>October 2, 2011 at 12:44:33 PM GMT+8

2011 年 9 月 5 日 星期一 【晴】

Struggling whether I should get some 保藥健 or not... they are expensive~

>>September 6, 2011 at 1:10:32 PM GMT+8

2011 年 9 月 5 日 星期一 【晴】

Form 5 那年, 老師教我們, 起床後第一件事要謝謝天父 "Thanks God for today". 之後都有思想過我們常 take things for granted.

Phew~ 最近妹妹兩次出血, 心跳得異常快, 及坐完 TAXI 想嘔...

I understand, we shouldn't take things for granted. To have a normal heart beat, to be healthy is really a blessing.

>>September 6, 2011 at 5:55:24 AM GMT+8

2011 年 9 月 4 日 星期日 【晴】

一條龍服務 $ 13888~ 下了deposit. Sheng founds that still expensive... but its price is definitely reasonable in Macau!

Osp~ caught a cold... I bought some cold tablet in the beginning. But my heart suddenly beats very fast and which gives me a very bad feeling... I rushed to the clinic... sigh~

>>September 6, 2011 at 3:45:45 AM GMT+8

2011 年 9 月 2 日 星期五 【晴】

去左 wedding expo... 個 sales 就狂 sell 自己公司有多好。她一直sell 影相，不過我現在要結婚當日的 service 啊！好啦，我之後好硬咁 stop 佢，先講返一條龍服務~ 我好坦白。。。i found it stupid to keep changing dresses the whole evening... and not even get a chance to catch up with guest... while I am also rejecting them as I can't afford to pay in full as required during Expo... plus I am concerned with $ after having to host 2 wedding reception... 傾下睇下，share 下, 個 sales 明白左我，給了我很多 solution! 　

First... the 4 set dresses - I could use 2 set in China!!! And on a different day!!!
Second... she let me pay 50% first!!! Then pay in full later!!!

The two sales... to be honest, one looks like Maggie the facilitator! And the other looks like Iris from CCM. My sister is free tomorrow and will go with me again =) ~

will chat with Sheng tonight.

>>September 3, 2011 at 2:28:37 PM GMT+8

2011 年 8 月 30 日 星期二 【晴】

嘩哈哈~ just share with you - We will take the pre-wedding pics in October. And our wedding rings have been decided too.

昨天決定影相的日期時, 先 realize 我 d hair 未長返... =_='' 不過, 今日 search 下~ short-hair 都可以有野攪 :P ~~~

>>August 31, 2011 at 1:40:13 AM GMT+8

2011 年 8 月 28 日 星期日 【晴】

介意 & 不原諒

以上兩者是一樣的嗎？

那一天，客人說：”how can you just leave us here without doing something！？"

Excuse me... I have not LEAVE you there WITHOUT doing something!

Guests come from UK... and they visit our office for work 5 days a week. We always have a meeting before they start & always advise them about taking a taxi in Macau. Very difficult. So I suggest them to take the bus.

That first day of this guest... he explored if there are any taxi during lunch time... He came to me and said he saw NONE after standing down stairs for sometime during his lunch hour.

Yes, I know. And I have warned him in the first instance. He responded: ”how can you just leave us here without doing something！？" "I don't want to take the bus and I don't want to wait for the taxi, you should have arrange something."

FINE, Mop 200-300 a ride, if you like, we can organize for you. But this guest is also not willing to pay.

It's been a week after the incident. And he has asked me to contact our bosses to arrange for him.

I am very very much UPSET & ANGRY with his comment, saying that I LEAVE THEM THERE without doing ANYTHING. I have dutifully made a map, told him where to get on and get off from the bus. I have warned him, I have searched for other options. And here you say I didn't do anything.

之後我每左都不想跟他打招呼．見到扮見唔到．

我介意他的說話，好介意！

>>August 29, 2011 at 12:58:48 PM GMT+8

2011 年 8 月 26 日 星期五 【晴】

888 人情！

Am I very weak?

Sheng suggested to give 588元的人情 to 十哥. This is 1/3 of his income. This is more than what he is tithing. And he is suggesting that we give TOGETHER!!!

What...? The normal 人情 in mainland is 50 - 100元。Is 588 a rather large sum? It is to me. Why? I don't know this guy... not even know him in person. Sheng & this guy has been friends for 10+ years, that's fair enough, but what about me =_=''

Sheng says we are a couple, so we shall give it together. I know he is not wanting me to pay apart, but he is desiring that we bless 十哥 together! That "WE" is what he is thinking of.

588 is not very valuable in some sense. But it still comes from sweat & blood. Before we finish our conversation tonight, I told him I don't want to give. He responded that I am not ready to change in my perspective.

>>August 26, 2011 at 4:19:09 PM GMT+8

2011 年 8 月 24 日 星期三 【晴】

She is right, I have a good pastor here...

Just checked the GOOD DAYS for marriage of April 2012. Not many. And not many falls on the weekend. I carefully raised to Sheng about the issues we shall encounter... like if that day has been chosen on a Sunday, what happens to the ceremony in Macau... We wanna honor the groom's family and will choose to have the Zhuhai wedding first.

I am now clear where's my position - shouldn't asking Sheng to go against his mom. But we both should stay together, stand firm and be united in spirit. 一條心！！！I was very wrong the other day to push him and blame him for his mom's idea.

And I learned that the elders want blessings for us, that's why they wanna pick a good date.

>>August 25, 2011 at 3:23:03 PM GMT+8