2006 年 3 月 20 日 星期一 【陰】

Very good fwd from Karen D: a little bit long, but worth reading!

READ THIS. LET IT REALLY SINK IN. THEN CHOOSE.

John is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up and asked him, "I don't get it!
You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

He replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or ... you can choose to be in a bad mood.
I choose to be in a good mood."
Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.
Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or... I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," he said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood.
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live your life."

I reflected on what he said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that he was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.
I saw him about six months after the accident.
When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place.

"The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon-to-be born daughter," he replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or...I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
He continued, "..the paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said John. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes, I replied.' The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity.'"
Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
He lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude... I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is everything.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
You have two choices now:
01. Delete this.
02. Forward it to the people you care about.

You know the choice I made.

>>March 21, 2006 at 10:52:47 AM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 19 日 星期日 【陰】

日日都返勁早, 唔知想點... 無曬d時間娛樂 ^^

sum up 上星期應記o既野先:
星期五約左舊時e-circle上左promiseland <-- 荔枝角B1出口, 好近!
勁好feel, 我都忍唔住買左d card仔送俾好同事們~
講到esther, 真係唔開心, 迷信真係會害死人...
that's why 我咁喜歡睇恐怖片, 就係想知人會因咩驚, 血? 鬼? 死? 睇自己點睇而已~

星期日終於相見了, 不過俾人片, 哈~ 又關我事?!
晚上約左久違的Jerry, 搞笑o既係我地上星期一o係條街撞到就約~
叫得我出來仲有d咩傾, 梗係女啦...
佢同我好似, 鍾意o既就去到盡~ 不過唔好俾人反咬一口先得, 佢因咩咁大脾氣先!
真係一個好仔, 如果介紹俾我最好o既GF都不為過, haha!!

又返聽 orange pekoe bossa nova & lisa stansfield d 老歌, 正!!!

>>March 22, 2006 at 11:37:21 PM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 14 日 星期二 【陰】

估唔到上一次打od已經係上星期o既事...
唔係話無野好打, 只係唔想打... 心情有d唔好, 係無端端發人地脾4, 因為我想佢付出多d俾我...
我付出咩野都無所謂, 因為鐘意嘛~ 但係有時單方面都係唔得, 只會迫得佢太緊...

話說今晚開cell, 先去醫肚, 後上左danny家開小組~
好正呀~~~~ 好relax~~~~ 大家隨意唱吓詩+歌, 超舒服!!!
roy 同 danny 唱得好好架, 勁! 我同grace成日都高低key兩邊走 ^^
下次一定要再上去"發洩"吓~ yeah!!!

>>March 15, 2006 at 5:12:07 PM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 10 日 星期五 【乍暖還寒】

話說尋日最終都出左去同燒公子睇<斷背山>, 悶到發癲呀!!!

TBC

>>March 11, 2006 at 4:45:18 PM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 9 日 星期四 【乍暖還寒】

中大人必看!!!
<中大斬樹記> http://www.inmediahk.net/public/article?item_id=99816&group_id=14
<齊來保護我們的山城> http://www.inmediahk.net/public/article?item_id=100557&group_id=11

我不嬲對人工堆砌的環境十分厭惡, 自己偏偏又o係最唔natural最人工化o既老鼠地方工作...
人就係咁矛盾...

係咪應該咩都唔諗就去au呢
其實如果讀左o個個advanced dip 係咪就可以以自己力量盡量保護自然生態?!
迷...

>>March 10, 2006 at 4:20:16 AM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 8 日 星期三 【晴】

今日返4pm, 真so!!!
好似放假咁~ 勁早起身... 終於爆左明智光秀~ 幾時先有d靚女出現呀... 阿國~~

呢幾日一食完野個胃就好似想爆咁, 我都係唔好再成日出街食dinner, 仲有食少d當keep fit!

match人? 大家快d玩啦~ from欣欣杯的xanga
http://gabeh.matchren.com

***
想到人與人為何要找個伴侶
真的是為了一生一世?
好運的, 找對了
否則... 人生的路還是要走下去
或者, 和不是自己最愛的人結婚, 生兒育女... 大有人在.
愛, 有太多層面, 究竟到哪個境地才可以在一起?! hahaha~

>>March 9, 2006 at 2:57:26 AM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 7 日 星期二 【陰】

好想補返上個星期d野, 不過太忙了... 又得一日dayoff
requested 左 10號想同d仔囡影畢業相, 好似無曬聲氣咁, anyway that day is fully booked~
上星期四dayoff o係屋企hea~ 晚上QQ仲上左黎打戰國無雙2, HAHA!!
上星期五去南Y島, 行山郊遊~ 仲去左d好有feel o既shop睇靚野, 食埋海鮮超正wow!
仲去睇"輪迴", ok恐怖啦, 最搞笑都係成班zombies走走吓, biohazard咁, 笑到傻...
好多位有得駁, 唔理啦!

呢幾日諗左好多野, 下回分解~

>>March 8, 2006 at 3:40:33 AM GMT+8

2006 年 3 月 4 日 星期六 【陰】

成個星期無講過JRC, 今日都講唔少... 4ppl call-sick...
係辛苦呀~ 不過都好彩有唔少傾得埋o既做closing~~~
放左工本來想同grace補足bday, sor my sore throat is severe... feel like 上次要消災咁.
不過... 總而言之今日都係好滿足, 好多野唔係可以plan定, haha~

糊里糊塗咁又一晚... 知道多左一d野, 仲o係他人身上都學到野添~~~

>>March 5, 2006 at 4:13:23 PM GMT+8

2006 年 2 月 28 日 星期二 【微雨】

last一日OJT, 得返jackie一個人, haha~ 其實佢真係好有天份, 神童呀 ^^
之後當然係去赴我期待已久的約, with hilda!
o係body shop 接完放學我地去左kfc, 有個呀嬸殺出黎請我地飲汽水 ._."
去行街睇扭蛋, 拎左nyanko日本名產~ YEAH!!!
雖然唔係hea左好耐, 但同佢一齊真係好開心, 謝~

>>March 3, 2006 at 11:54:41 PM GMT+8

2006 年 2 月 26 日 星期日 【雷雨】

Between self-interests & love to others, I prefered...
It's a very good night to be with me, though it's common for him.
Luckily, there's a long way to go until we meet again.
I should consider all over & over...
Heaven knows~

>>February 28, 2006 at 12:37:32 AM GMT+8