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2010 年 11 月 16 日 星期二 【晴】

期望的通常都不會發生

幸好一早已經預期未必一定會去

而日間看到大霧也知道就算真的去也很大機會看不到流星

最後如我們所理性推測的發生

很大霧

而看不到流星

但卻是很好的 chill out night

thank you fireman!!

>>November 18, 2010 at 10:58:41 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 15 日 星期一 【晴】

原本不打算一定看

現在卻有點期待明天的流星雨

:)

>>November 16, 2010 at 9:39:34 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 14 日 星期日 【晴】

by trial and error

trial and error

i seems to hv a better idea of where my 'balance point' or middle path is


keep it up


很有趣

原來感恩的心真的能被培養出來的

而感恩跟快樂原來很近

或是根本是其中一個 factor

很感恩一行禪師介紹這個 mindfulness bell

起初認為不需要

用落卻發現很好用喔~

謝謝

>>November 16, 2010 at 9:38:35 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 13 日 星期六 【晴】

今天去了一行禪師的 talk

他透過教導我們如何把活在當下應用在愛情或我們所愛的人上

"to truly love someone is to be presence for him or her"

我們很多時候即使在對方身旁

但若我們不是真的在當下

對方並不會真的感受到你的 presence

比如說當別人跟我們談話

若我們還在做其他事情

而不是完全專注的聆聽

對方會感受到我們不是 really presence

就算我們說到有多愛對方

if we are not really presence

對方並不會感受到我們對他的愛

學了三句 mantra, 先 aware breath and steps for a few seconds (i will choose to observe natural breath and natural body sensation), then look into his or her eyes, and say:

"darling, i am here"

"darling, I know you are here and I am happy." (to cultivate a grateful mind)

"darling, I know you are suffering and I am here with you." (to acknowledge his suffering and show support)


mindfulness 真的很有用

as i practice each day

i really see the difference it make to my everyday life

i am already a happy and positive person

but this amazed me how this technique can make me become even happier


thanks a lot Thay thich nhat hanh

thanks dhamma

may you be benefited from vipassana when the right timing is come.

>>November 15, 2010 at 10:56:37 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 12 日 星期五 【晴】

很幸運

因為算是教育工作者 (雖然是 part time)

但也能參加 thich nhat hanh 一行禪師的 one day meditation

是次活動是由教育學院舉辦

原來教院正開辦各樣的 spiritual training 給教育工作者

果然如蕭老師所說

一行禪師由於是越南人

而當地受天主教文化影響

所以他的教導方式悠合了小乘佛教, 大乘佛教和天主教

他們互相稱呼大家為 brothers and sisters

他們會彈結他, 拉小提琴, 中提琴, 打鼓

但也有佛教的傳統樂器如鐘和韾

所唱的歌的 melody 像天主教的 hymns

今天修習了

walking meditation (他們建議行三步的時間去吸氣, 行五步的時間去呼氣)

然後可以告訴自己 home home home

sitting meditation (吸氣時知道吸氣, 呼氣時知道呼氣)

deep relaxation (像瑜珈的大休息, 不過最後有法師即場演奏古典小提琴樂曲)

他提議我們可以用一個 bell 來提醒自己回到當下

觀察呼吸

這個 bell 可以是 gong, 或是 telephone ring, 或是 red traffic light


今天的體驗蠻有趣

感覺非常的 peaceful

讓我回想起多年前未接觸內觀的經驗

這個充滿平安的感覺是非常好的

雖然這也有它的危險性

因為 the nature of compassion and love is bound to be feeling peaceful and at ease

but this balm could be act as a curtain to cover the truth and the reality

上周先去 vipassana meditation 然後才來這個 one day camp 是一個非常好的 timing

因剛把疑慮釐清

取得平衡

否則很容易會 indulge in such kind of peacefulness and forgot about all the reality

分清 purification and metta

分清 day to day life and sitting meditation

是很重要的

非常感恩


今天的參加者有很多天主教教友

而這教友是聽了神父的介紹而來的

而 back to united states

thich nhat hanh 跟很多天主教的神父一起分享各自的修習

這是非常美妙的一件事


謝謝 thich nhat hanh

我也去了你的 mindfulnes bell 網頁

嘗試每半小時觀察三次呼吸 (不過我選擇了觀察自然呼吸和自然身體的感受)

蠻不錯呢

果然如 sister 所說

表面好像浪費了幾秒

而實質卻讓我們做事更 effective

衷心的謝謝您

也希望有一天你和你的僧團能分享 vipassana meditation 的好處

謝謝

mindfulness bell:

http://www.fungie.info/bell/#

>>November 13, 2010 at 4:37:07 PM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 11 日 星期四 【晴】

清明上河圖天

>>November 12, 2010 at 5:03:17 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 10 日 星期三 【晴】

祝好朋友 xxxx 永遠開心快樂

今天跟你通電真好



有時候受傷過後不其然會有這樣的想法

很自然的

祝幸福喔~

XOXO

>>November 11, 2010 at 5:06:17 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 9 日 星期二 【晴】

晚間的 metta 環節

我忽發奇想

有新的 goodwills and sharing of goodwills

比如祝福自己的小腿能幼些

然後希望其他像我一樣粗小腿的朋友們也能小腿幼些

祝願自己肚 larm 平些

然後希望其他像我一樣有大肚 larm 的朋友們也能肚 larm 平些

ははは

>>November 10, 2010 at 9:50:50 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 8 日 星期一 【晴】

Meaning of "sampajanno":

- thorough understanding of impermance
- must be continuous awareness of arising, persisitng and vanishing of sensation while performing different activities
- memory

for example, if we only know the external process of walking, how our sole of the feet and toe touch the ground and lifted, it is only 'sati'. But if we aware such sensation with a constant thorough understanding of the characteristics of arising, persisting and vanishing of vedana while perfoming this activities, it is 'sampajano satima' and it is how 'panna' (wisdom) is developed.

頑ばる

>>November 10, 2010 at 9:46:13 AM GMT+8


2010 年 11 月 7 日 星期日 【晴】

找到好像 balance 的方法

決定測試一下

在日常生活中

無論在做甚麼

嘗試持續感受著身體任何一部份的感覺

just aware

用少許的 memory

aware 那感受 arising

persisting

and passing away

memory 在這裡指會久不久知道身體這部份的感受跟早前比較已經改變了

比如說剛才乘巴士腳放在地上的感覺

在下車走路時腳的感覺已經改變

便覺知腳的感覺經已改變

另外

當有強烈情緒生起時

會感受身體有強烈感覺的部位

知道這強烈感覺生起了

然後祝福一下自己


另外

於日常生活會培養感恩的心

會久不久會感覺 '真係好了, 能吃這美味的食物'


而在每天早晚一小時的靜座環節中

保留其 purification 的目的

純客觀的觀察和 aware


好似真係 work wor

throughout the day 整天都很開心呢

:)

>>November 10, 2010 at 9:55:41 AM GMT+8


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If you go to Win
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katie katie....
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Princess <br>wri
>>April 14, 2003 at 1:21:58 PM GMT+8

看到你的網上日記,感到非常高興!
>>April 13, 2003 at 5:34:02 PM GMT+8

我整個星期都在家,因公司分成兩&
>>April 11, 2003 at 7:27:16 AM GMT+8

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>>April 11, 2003 at 3:07:57 AM GMT+8

親愛的公主, <br> <br>
>>April 11, 2003 at 2:48:42 AM GMT+8

kiss.... kiss...
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